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Andrea K.
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Am I suppose to just forget that my childs father stepped out on me when I was three months pregnant got into a…

Am I suppose to just forget that my childs father stepped out on me when I was three months pregnant got into a relationship with someone else behind my back basically used me for a place to stay then goes to jail for violating probation 2 weeks before my due date misses his sons birth has only came to one dr appointment. Bought one pack of wipes for him. Now he plans on being with this girl I've never even seen or met once he gets out of jail and demands 50\50 custody of our son. I don't know what to do!!! I want my son to know his daddy but seems to me like hes not ready. Any help ladies? Encouraging words, something? 😟😟

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del_1512270001_juliaschade41

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@andkitch1992 but your baby won't be fatherless for long. The right man will come along, just have faith.

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I would not give him shit

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andkitch1992

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@juliaschade41 youre so right its just hard because our baby was planned as soon as i got pregnant and had to stop the careless life style everything spiraled and i never imagined for my baby to grow up without a father. I cant get over that i have to take it as a loss and understand I had a baby with the wrong man.

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del_1512270001_juliaschade41

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Umm I encourage you to say fuck him and you and your son move on. Seriously. Get full custody, put your name on the birth certificate, and wait for the right man to come along and adopt your son and be a real father. You're not married to the guy, so there ya go. No child of mine would ever be around that, I don't care if he helped make her or not. He's acting like just a sperm donor and that's all he should be. Sorry if I'm sounding insensitive, but this should not be tolerated. You shouldn't even think twice about letting him in y'alls life. Me and my daughter are waiting on the right man to come into our lives ourselves, and its literally the best decision ever. Good luck to you.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

He's in jail It's been almost 2 years since I've received any sort of communication with my son, that I gave up for…

He's in jail It's been almost 2 years since I've received any sort of communication with my son, that I gave up for adoptions parents. Yesterday was my birthday and guess what I woke up to this morning? An email from his parents. I was so excited until I opened the email to find out that they are writing to let me know he's been sentenced to a juvenile detention center. Why you may ask? Armed robbery. Clearly they are doing a stellar job raising my kid ????

I am so stressed right now!!!

I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.