@andkitch1992 but your baby won't be fatherless for long. The right man will come along, just have faith.

I would not give him shit

@juliaschade41 youre so right its just hard because our baby was planned as soon as i got pregnant and had to stop the careless life style everything spiraled and i never imagined for my baby to grow up without a father. I cant get over that i have to take it as a loss and understand I had a baby with the wrong man.

Umm I encourage you to say fuck him and you and your son move on. Seriously. Get full custody, put your name on the birth certificate, and wait for the right man to come along and adopt your son and be a real father. You're not married to the guy, so there ya go. No child of mine would ever be around that, I don't care if he helped make her or not. He's acting like just a sperm donor and that's all he should be. Sorry if I'm sounding insensitive, but this should not be tolerated. You shouldn't even think twice about letting him in y'alls life. Me and my daughter are waiting on the right man to come into our lives ourselves, and its literally the best decision ever. Good luck to you.