anyone else dealing with a gender disappointment?
anyone else dealing with a gender disappointment?
anyone else dealing with a gender disappointment?
I went through this with my son. I always wanted a little girl since i was a little girl and when i heard it was a boy i was disappointed and felt horrible for being disappointed but ten years later i can honestly say i wouldn't hqve it any other way. He was the best thing that ever happened to me and i felt like i was given what i needed and not what i wanted. If i had to do it again i wouldn't change a thing. I think you will be fine once you see that beautiful bundle of joy ❤
Ashley Clara AndersonМама сына-младенца, беременна (33 нед.)
Nooo don’t think negative about me, I’m not here for that I’m just trying to throw a solution out there because I was like that at the beginning and didn’t find out my babies gender until I was 4months. Because was gonna find out on L&D day
@luna.cosmovibe
It's completely normal to feel like that. Don't make us feel bad for having natural emotions.
Ashley Clara AndersonМама сына-младенца, беременна (33 нед.)
Ya shouldn’t feel like this, having a baby is a blessing if you think you’d deal with gender disappointment don’t find out the gender and wait till the big day when you push the baby out. The bond would be crazy 😜 no matter what!
Malaina HekaВ ожидании первенца
@taylorg, I've been waiting 22 weeks 😭 hahaha I'm so ready and scared to find out! I really do hope you're right though!
JessTaylor GВ ожидании первенца
@malainaheka23, haha you never know! seriously! Just wait and see :) 💓💓
Malaina HekaВ ожидании первенца
@taylorg, I'm glad I'm not... I've been starting to feel bad for feeling this way. I literally had a breakdown last night in front of my SO because I really want a girl. 😂😅 haha I will definitely let you know when I find out tomorrow! 😬🤗
JessTaylor GВ ожидании первенца
@malainaheka23, also, i saw on your post everyone commented saying they thought it was a boy...i posted something similar before my reveal and EVERYONE commented boy. not one person thought it was a girl. and they were all wrong. so don’t get disappointed yet, you could still get your girl!!
JessTaylor GВ ожидании первенца
@malainaheka23, yeah, and that’s ok. It’s ok to be disappointed and you aren’t the only one who would be dealing with that. I hope you get your girl!!! Please let me know?? 😋😋
Malaina HekaВ ожидании первенца
@taylorg, congratulations on your girl!!! Girls are so much fun! You're going to love being a girl mom! It's the opposite for me, everyone around me is having girls and here I am pretty positive that I missed the girl trend. I blame my SO because his mom had all boys. 🤦🏻♀️ I keep saying I'll be happy no matter what, which is true... I'm going to love my baby no matter what he or she is, but I have no doubt that I'll be disappointed for a while if it does turn out to be a boy. 😕
kaela3Мама сына (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
I did with my the one I'm pregnant with now. Really wanted a girl but he's a boy
JessTaylor GВ ожидании первенца
@malainaheka23, i totally know what you mean. i always pictured myself as a boy mom. never once did i imagine my life with a daughter. i always thought i would have like 3 boys. I wanted a boy SO bad...but she’s a girl! And i feel like everyone around me is having boys which is making the situation worse. I love her already and i’m not angry or sad. but i’m disappointed for sure :/
adaneli reyesВ ожидании первенца
Right here ! I'm having a boy but man oh man he always kept his legs closed like wow baby mommy wants to know lol
Malaina HekaВ ожидании первенца
@taylorg, I'm hoping for a girl. I've always pictured myself as a girl mom. Not once in my life have I thought about having a boy... but I just have a really scary feeling that we're having a boy. 😕 and I told everyone not to be upset if I start crying if they reveal boy tomorrow. I'm more nervous than excited to be honest. I know nothing about boys. 😬 What were you hoping for?
Malaina HekaВ ожидании первенца
I have a feeling that I might when I find out the gender tomorrow. 🙈😕
Quiss·Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I think I will go through this if I find out I'm having another girl I already have 2 all I want is a boy just give me at least 1 lol
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