I snooped through my boyfriends phone yesterday ( I have never done this is 5 years just had an…

Why does he have y’alls old landlord on Snapchat? That doesn’t sound right to me anyways. And their conversations are personal when they shouldn’t have a relationship at all since she’s not your landlord anymore. Wtf. Nope. I’d think something was going on.

@damn.it.red, I’ve had a feeling about her ever since I met her, they text and he used to go out to lunch with her when we lived there, he also has her on Facebook.... it’s just frustrating. I should of read the rest of the texts I only read the bottom of the message and he said if I would have read the rest I would have seen that it’s not what it seems.... but I know what I saw and the conversation that I did read was not innocent

@denisse.m, the thing is this picture was sent a long time ago and this conversation just happened 2 days ago....

He is lying and he prob going to do it again just because he never admitted the truth. I am sorry you are experiencing this at this time. Just try to focus on the baby and your child .. After all that is passed then focus what you want from your relationship.

@alyssa_hoffmaster, well maybe he should let you read the rest since it’s so innocent. Or maybe he shouldn’t be having that kind of conversation with another ducking female period. Fucking douche canoe

@alyssa_hoffmaster its hard, trust me I been through something very similar. Try to relax because you are about to have a baby. But if you want to leave him, leave you can do it alone with or without him. Good luck stay strong

@alyssa_hoffmaster how the heck he went out to eat with her ??? That was weird ..

@rola, ya apparently they became friends

@alyssa_hoffmaster apparently he is a liar but stay strong

😥😥Omg I am so sorry... you should not be going through this right now. The devil wants to steal your joy... you take that damn phone and you tell him to call that bitch up on speaker and to tell her that you read everything and that their “friendship” ends today and that hes blocking her number. Sadly, you won’t ever know if it’s done and any man who talks about a fantasy is a form of flirting. They were both flirting with each other. Very inappropriate. Don’t trust it at all!!! 😞😞😞😡😡😡😡😞😞😞😞

@anacort, he said he’ll block her number if I wanted too and I said that if he wanted to talk to her he would find a way regardless of if her number was blocked or not

@morgan.k, he just said that if he was cheating he would have deleted the conversation and that I wouldn’t have the password to his phone if he was hiding something 🤷🏼‍♀️

Yup I agree! Let me tell you something my brother has a wife of 17 years and also had a gf/mistress for 2 years. Yes 2 years. He finally just got caught and somehow managed to deny and pretend the other woman was crazy... 😒still manages to keep both woman because the wife believed him like an asshole. So you need to have a strong/demanding attitude and get your respect because that is totally inappropriate period. But wait til you have the baby because we don’t need any complications because of some dumb selfish shit. Sorry I’m talking crap lol but shit like this pisses me off. I guess because I have brothers who cheat and a father who cheated on my mom and abandoned her kids so I take shit to another level. Don’t judge me lol

@melinanae, no it’s completely fine, I know.... I honestly don’t know what to do because I’m sure he’s mad he got caught so he was twisting everything

Girl hmu

Omg reading this post just pissed me off. I've been cheated on multiple times in the past with my ex boyfriend and he legit said the same thing. "If I'm cheating, you really think I'll give you the password?" Listen, im not one to spew out relationship advice but trust me when I tell you, those messages are exactly what they seem. What kind of Boyfriend would tell another woman his sexual fantasies if he didn't want to play them out with her? That's fucked up. I know you love him and you want to believe him, but it's better if you didn't and like the other women on here said, if the text messages were as innocent as he says, tell him to let you read the messages. If he says no and makes a huge deal about why you don't trust him, then he's cheating and he's a piece of shit who does NOT DESERVE YOU. You are worth gold and he can't appreciate you. I am so sorry you're going through this and I'm sorry if I seem rough, but I'm just so sick and tired of men playing women left and right and think they can get away with it.

@scx327, no your fine, I just don’t know what to believe anymore!

@alyssa_hoffmaster, That’s what they do, TWIST EVERYTHING... he’s busted, and now he’s flipping it and will even throw out the “trust” card. Be strong. Remain stern. And let him know that he fucked up and now you don’t know what to think anymore. I would confront the other woman too and demand an explanation before he gets to her first if he hasn’t already.

@alyssa_hoffmaster, you should ask him to let you read the rest of the conversation

I know and it's hard because it's someone you love and it's hard to believe they'd do something like this. I went through it and when I found out, I was so caught off guard because I thought our relationship was going so well but being stupid me, i forgave him and he did it again and again. I don't want to say don't believe him but after this and reading those messages, it's gonna be hard to trust him again.

Im sorry you are going through this love. Definitely sounds like he is lying

If you still need to talk inbox me

Let me just say this Bc unfortunately I have cheated in pretty much all of the relationships I've been in...for your sake Hun I'd leave him Bc if he does it once he will do it again not saying he has cheated...yet... Idk it's not fair to you! I've done a lot of learning in my years a lot of messing up and I know what kind of person that is Bc I was that person. I'm not saying he can't change Bc I know a person can. I just want you to know if you ever need to talk please feel free to message me. And again I'm so sorry you are having to go through this 😔

Thank you everybody seriously! I love the support I have from this app it really means a lot

So sorry your having to go through this!!

I kinda wanted to read everyone’s comments but it’s too much . Lol But I seriously think he’s lying !! How u accidentally send a picture on snap at that .. how are they even friends on snap ? He’s not tryna play victim ! It’s okay to be wrong lying just makes things worse .. and confront that damn landlord!

As someone who has been cheated on before a couple of times, I can say those messages are exactly what it looks like. I’m so sorry you have to go through that, No good faithful woman deserves that. It sucks men don’t realize what they have and choose to fuck it up and fuck around with hoes who obviously have no respect for anyone not even themselves. I got cheated on and told about it when I was pregnant with my son, It depressed me so much I had complications with my pregnancy for a little bit, Because on top of it all, He cheated with my daughter’s godmother (obviously she’s not her godmother anymore). But what’s best to do although you’re in emotional pain is to focus on you and the baby, It’s not worth having complications and you being down right now because your baby in there and your kiddos can pick up on your vibe, Try to focus on you and the kids ❤️ Hope everything works out in the end.