Last time I got checked for dilation the doctor was really rough and made me bleed. Do you think if I ask her to be less rough she’s listen or totally ignore me?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
this month was so rough on me I hope next month will be better
parden me and how rough I look but does this cause the hip dysplasia or whatever it's called ??
Looking a lil rough this Morning , But Me & Babby🤱🏽💋
I wish i had a friend to go with me to the tattoo studio later
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No idea. Don't know the personality of your doctor.
Randie·
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@juliaschade41, she’s an older lady, technically a midwife. I just hate being manhandled but I also don’t want to be embarrassed
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Ah when u due
Randie·
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@sports5682, November 14th
Kayla Berg·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
@randie.raye just tell her you have been extremely tender down there, and would like her to be careful. Or it could be that she has short and stubby fingers haha. They say those kinds of fingers really hurt!
Randie·
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@kaylaberg7777, I have no idea I just know it was painful, I bled and for 30 minutes after I thought I was going to puke. I just want her to tell me I can go from her office to the hospital honestly
Kayla Berg·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
@randie.raye I feel your frusteration!!! They say its normal to bleed for up to 24 hours. Maybe she just went a little too deep. Hopefully next time she will be more careful!
Randie·
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@kaylaberg7777, well before she checked me I hadn’t lost my mucus plus, when I got home I did immediately and she said I was dilated 1cm
Kayla Berg·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
@randie.raye ahhhhh maybe she swipt your membranes by accident?? Ive heard of doctors/midwifes doing that on accident!
Randie·
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@kaylaberg7777, possibly I just know she said it would be a little uncomfortable and the. It led to me almost crying. Hopefully next time it’ll be better
Sarah ·
It is normal for it to hurt.... a lot, and it’s normal to bleed. But definitely tell her you are tender, keep that line of communication open and clear.
You’re also far enough along that it should get labor rolling sooner rather than later. So read up on signs of labor to watch for and get some rest.