@sianeeel no probs... dont worry... i know people can be nasty in relationships...

Do what you think is best for your baby and fuck the rest!

Thank you laura

Some men can be dicks and im sure theres good reason she doesnt want him involved!

If hes not blood then he has no rights!

Im sure theres good reason your thinking this.. and ive always said id never shut my babies father out.. but.. ive known plenty of stories of women who havw rightly done so... sometimes baby is better off! X

He hasn’t got rights as he’s not the biological dad and not on the birth certificate but don’t think it would be fair to him to stop him or his family seeing the baby just because you broke up you planned to raise this baby together and to shut him out isn’t fair in him or the baby

Thanks. I dont know just some stuff he said made me concerned he might try. Thanks. Sorry to annoy so many people but i just needed some quick advice. Thought this was a supportive group/site

Well u don't need to worry he's no relation so he has no right

If it was yeah maybe he would gave leg to stand on but he wouldnt deserve it even then. But no he is trans so bot possible he is the father

If it is what? The baby isnt his.

But if it is he then he should have some right if am honest

Well there is ur answer !

No.

He is not blood related ?

And technically i planned the pregnancy before we got together and started looking for my donor before also as i told him from day one it was happening..

Hun the baby is not being used as a weapon at all. He doesnt deserve it and never acted in a way id want my child to be around. Ive seen enough of kids being used as weapons and been one myself i assure that isnt the case here. I do not trust the person not just i dont like him or he isnt nice. So no he does not get a say because he never earned it and this child will not be better having him in their life.

@sianeeel, I just don't like to see children being used as weapons even if people are not blood related to them or aren't nice to you you have to put the child first and if he planned the pregnancy with you then shouldn't he be allowed to have a say?

Wow. Thanks. Ita my personal life why would i post it? I didnt ask for opinions i asked for fact. And i even said in my post hes not the father.

If you don't post all the facts then expect a mismatch of opinions on what you have mentioned. We can only give our opinions. Need professional legal advice then yes this is the wrong place.

@isabellaboo the baby isnt even born yet i am only 13 weeks pregnant.... and through most of this pregnancy so far he hasnt wanted to know or care or do anything to help or support me. So please... not fair when you dont know my circumstances i just wanted to know about rights. Wrong place to post i guess

I don’t know if it is different as u used a donor so u must of picked him out together I would say go and talk to someone like citizens advice as they will know for sure x

Thanks. Its more complicated than i made it here because i didnt want to air it all but he has not supported me through the 6 months we were together and didnt even care when i was poorly etc and is very immature... his mother is even texting me ever since because he wont. Hes spoiled and i dont want him having rights. Its whats best for many reasons

Although if you were together and planned to get pregnant together and raise the child together and his family were treating the baby although it was going to be their grandchild then I personally think that it would be unfair to stop him being involved just because you broke up if he was biologically the father would you stop him?

If his not the baby dad he has no right over that baby

Then No he would have no right why would he?

Its not his child. He is transgender and i used a donor

@sianeeel, why should he and his family not be allowed to see the child? It's not just your child, you wouldn't be pregnant without him, just saying