Can we all agree that it's rude to ask an expecting mother who the father is? I mean if that's something she wants to share she probably will. Not everyone gets pregnant in a happy couple situation. And me not wanting to say who the father is does not mean I don't know who he is. And even if I didn't so fucking what that's still no one else's business. What matters is there is a baby coming. Get excited with me. If you can't then the news probably wasn't meant for you anyway. Just little rant. I've only had two people ask me who the father is. One I blew off because she's a rude judgmental bitch anyway and that's not something I didn't know. The other was a comment I just deleted and haven't been asked again.
@maxx oh I see. Yeah either way that's not anyone's business.
I know the feel. People kept asking me if my baby was my husband's (separated, going through a divorce for over a year and a half) and even though they knew my situation. Like how tf could it be his he's been across the country. Not to mention that ass never wanted kids.
@tattooed_mama I was referring more to Facebook. People I do actually know. But it would definitely be extra rude and creepy of someone on here did it.
That is rude. I'm curious as to why someone would ask that on an app? Why does it matter, you don't even know the person personally, that's like walking up to a random pregnant women at the store and asking who the father is. Lmao. Creepy AF if you ask me.
You’re right , it’s no one’s business!! Fuck what they think and fuck what they got to say . It’s your life live it the way you want !! Congrats btw 💕
I feel like it's rude to ask someone if the babies father is around ..like ask me how it's going or something like that. All that matters is the baby not who is going to be around 😒😒😒😴
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I showed my sister the test this morning and all she said was it's too faint it probably means you had a miscarriage cause it's so faint.. that's seriously killed me..
Okay so idk if it's the same for every state or whatever ( I live in West Virginia ) but I need some advice :/...
So my son is due in about a month, and the father is between two different guys ( I didn't cheat long story :/ )
One of the possible fathers lives in North Carolina two states away from me, and the other possible father lives like 20 minutes away from me, but I told him and he said he doesn't want to talk about it, then blocked me.
Once I have the baby, and they ask me who the fat...
Universal preschool access
I don't think I've ever seen this topic discussed here? Anyways, there's a bill or something up in MN for universal access to preschool. I have some friends who live there who are completely against it and I'm trying to understand why. I can't understand their concerns because their concerns aren't how 4k works? At least not here and wouldn't be there from how I understand it.
I've felt often the same lately, since I'm actually not married and pregnant. I admire your insight to not let others get to you. Congrats on your pregnancy. 😇