Can we all agree that it's rude to ask an expecting mother who the father is? I mean if that's something she wants to share she probably will. Not everyone gets pregnant in a happy couple situation. And me not wanting to say who the father is does not mean I don't know who he is. And even if I didn't so fucking what that's still no one else's business. What matters is there is a baby coming. Get excited with me. If you can't then the news probably wasn't meant for you anyway. Just little rant. I've only had two people ask me who the father is. One I blew off because she's a rude judgmental bitch anyway and that's not something I didn't know. The other was a comment I just deleted and haven't been asked again.
I know the feel. People kept asking me if my baby was my husband's (separated, going through a divorce for over a year and a half) and even though they knew my situation. Like how tf could it be his he's been across the country. Not to mention that ass never wanted kids.
@tattooed_mama I was referring more to Facebook. People I do actually know. But it would definitely be extra rude and creepy of someone on here did it.
That is rude. I'm curious as to why someone would ask that on an app? Why does it matter, you don't even know the person personally, that's like walking up to a random pregnant women at the store and asking who the father is. Lmao. Creepy AF if you ask me.
I've felt often the same lately, since I'm actually not married and pregnant. I admire your insight to not let others get to you. Congrats on your pregnancy. 😇