Finally got cleaning done after 3 hours. Just one toodler and i had to pick up after her and then go back to what i was doing... Grab this and that from her.... I love being a mom but i remember how peaceful it was to clean without a baby. It doesnt help that her father seems to only be a parent when he wants to.. If i were a man and my child were to live away from me i would for one move closer, and sure as hell spend time with my child. How do you do days without speaking to your kid and then out the blue be like "i miss my kid" but still not call or stop by lmfao i feel like your just looking for attention of some sort and you need to look for it else where.. I dont care if we are together or not.. Your starting to make me feel like my daughter and I dont mean shit to you! Just sad 😡😢 im not trying to complain but damn it i need a break sometime.
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Ur doing ur best and it is true
@chrissymartinez88 yeah i guess that's true
At least hes helping in that form even though u could use more from him.
@chrissymartinez88 i will.. As bad as i want to raise my children with him i mind as well be raising them without him... The only thing i tell him now is "hey time to buy diapers" thats all i ask for.. I buy clothes.. Food... Meds.. And anything else she needs.
Sometimes being that isnt bad. Keep the chin and fight to give her the best.
@chrissymartinez88 you know i never thought that was true until i had her. Now i just want nothing but the best. Unfortunately im a helicopter mom!
If he cant help raise her then yes u r a single parent and from what i read a dang good one. Its exhausting and hard but ur love for ur little girl will keep u going.
@chrissymartinez88 her god parents usually pick her up once a week but thats not always the case. So i could go weeks without a break you know. When people ask me if im a single parent i tell them yes right in front of him now.. I know its not right but i mean i practically am. Since birth i have had little to no help with my daughter by her father. Everytime i think it might be different that shit dont change..
Every mom single or not feels overwhelmed and it dont sound like hes helping. Being a parent isnt really a choice. U cant be the only one that parents ur child. U r doing the best u can. Hope he will figure out how to be a dad at some point. Do u have anyone u trust to watch for a couple hours so u can get a break?
Ur welcome