Opinions?
I'm such a random kiss/ hug/ touch person and my guy isn't. He only kisses or hugs me first if he is leaving, and no random touches in passing. It's honestly depressing.
Edit:: We've also only have had sex once in the past 4 months, and it didn't end well that one time. Used to it was at least once a week.
Im trying to do the same thing but its just hard, and he's also fighting addiction so thats also taking a big toll on our relationship
@minnesotamom I've spoke to him about it. He said he was trying to be more affectionate before we took a small break but that he is really depressed and it is hard to do. And I mentioned the sex thing and he said it's not important to him right now. Sex is very important to me and he knows it is, it's just not happening.
My husband hates touching and kissy and affectionate stuff like that I’m the opposite I love hugging and kissing all that mushy stuff it sucks in a way but I know he loves me and we have sex every other day that’s a must for me. Talk to him and be open and communicate about it. My husband hates it but he will do it every now and then when I’m not expecting it. It’s funny he did it when we first dated and after few years and married now he’s stop but communicate what you want in your relationship or marriage tell him you feel lonely and depressed and you guys need to figure something out and see what’s in store for you guys future if there’s gunna be one as a couple or not.
@taurus_family2017 Same, I just keep holding on thinking maybe when we get a place together things will change. We used to have an amazing relationship then 3 months in I found out I was pregnant and everything changed.
@taurus_family2017 I hate it. I'm starting to think I made a mistake in deciding to work things out rather than walk away.
I hope things work themselves out and get better and if they don't..... Well everything happens for a reason. U might be missing out on a blessing by trying to keep or make something that wasn't destined to be. Just continue to put your best foot forward. At least at the end of day u can say u did your best at trying to make it work