Alright mommas. I went to the drs today after having pressure turns out I was completely soft and 2-3 cms. I'm now having contractions and serve pressure in my butt and lower belly.. is this labor ? I never had contractions in my stomach with my first.. just my back. It feel like my muscles in the bottom of my stomach are being pulled and cut. ☹️
You have to time them when you feel them in your tummy before it's real labor. Doctor told me they will increase in intensity each time before it's the real thing.
Your tummy will get rock hard when your having a contraction
Girl if I were you I'd be at the hospital that I plan to deliver at.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
When you say completely soft does that mean 100 percent effaced because I was told the same but different dilation ?