I know how you feel, mine was the same. Some guys just get freaked out and they aren't into it..which is okay too. I'd just walk around and bounce on a bouncy ball....or just surprise him one night and initiate it yourself. It's not the same for your self esteem but it's a start.

He says he's not, and that he still finds me attractive... But I can count on two hands how many times we've had sex this year... And it's really taking a hit on my self esteem... Especially right now.

My last pregnancy my husband wanted no sex at all for the last 2 months. He was freaked out. Only thing i can tell u is walk alot

Is he weirded out?