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Symone Jones
Symone Jones
Мама двоих (младенец)

Since having my second child I don’t feel myself any more, I’m constantly stressed, depressed and just feel generally…

Since having my second child I don’t feel myself any more, I’m constantly stressed, depressed and just feel generally pushed away by my partner, he hardly spends time with me anymore and when he do pay attention it’s always when I’m depressed and just want to be on my own, how can I resolve this :( I love my girls 1yr and other is 3 weeks almost 4 weeks xx

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noshinxoxo

NoshinМама сына (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@symonejones I know the feeling. I was so scared to admit I was drowning with my first baby. I became this horrible monster to my husband, shouting at him all day. Eventually a fight broke out and I just cried telling him that it was actually how I was feeling, how depressed stressed low worried anxious I was feeling that was making me like this. I asked for his help, I told my health visitor, she did nothing BTW. But my husband told me to go stay with my mum for a week, he drove me up and it was the only reason I didn't completely break. Slowly I began to find out that other mums went through similar things. Made me feel less alone and insane.

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symonejones

Symone JonesМама двоих (младенец)

@noshinxoxo, I try but it’s just hard trusting people not to judge and to give the support I need :) xxx

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noshinxoxo

NoshinМама сына (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

Do talk to your nurse, health visitor, doctor, whoever you're comfortable with. What you're feeling happens to many of us, I had it with baby 1 let alone with 2 under 2. Already preparing for the worst with that. If not just find a place, a friend, a parent, this app somewhere to vent.

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arlosmomma

Shannon DarbyshireМама сына-младенца

Oh tell me about it it’s taken me months and months of perseverance with him but finally worked, don’t suffer with it on your own though xx

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symonejones

Symone JonesМама двоих (младенец)

@shannonn95, I have tried talking to him but this is men we talk about it goes threw one ear out the other and I have my family nurse in 2 weeks so going to speak to her :( it’s just hard for me to talk really I hardly speak to family and my family is really really close xx

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arlosmomma

Shannon DarbyshireМама сына-младенца

You tried talking to him or a Doctor hun, I’ve been through it x

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Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside…

Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?