No matter how hard I try to make it work with my husband, it just never seems to Be good enough... I'm tired of stressing out and bending over backwards for someone who wont make half the effort to make it work...
I don't want to give up on my family , but at this point, why keep trying...
@thecreatress thank you mama , hope everything works out for you as well! ❤😊
@claudiaporteous, I've been through the same things for years, him always saying itll be better. It lasts for a little while and back to the same thing. Stay strong i don't know the whole story but I know sometimes breaks do help but other times no. 💪🏽 good luck with everything ❤️
@thecreatress exactly. I finally had the strength to leave him about a month ago, mostly because I was put on bed rest and my mom is helping me with my son till the baby comes... but it's already been so much less stressful. Me and my husband have been arguing back and forth though because he wants me to come back , but he's doing the same stupid shit and its just not worth the stress , tears, and headaches...
I feel the exact same way - I'm over it. And I've seen women in my family waste their whole lives in shitty relationships. We know how we feel & what we want and yet it's hard to just leave. Im mustering up the strength to do better for me. And my kids. I deserve to be happy and they do too.
You deserve to be happy.
You seem like ur the glue holding everything together and if you give up then it’s fall apart.. I know it is hard but I don’t know ur situation but maybe seek a marriage counselor or just alone time together , these things helped me
I was there last year and feeling the exact same way but with prayer and my faith.. I can truly say I have hope for us again. Praying for the best for you guys 🙏🏻
@tyrellp he would never. Like in a million years , he would never do that.
@lilly_mom_of_4 it's just not worth the stress... and espically being 37 weeks pregnant , like it's the last thing I need
@babyjaysmommy sorry I just saw this , but thank you mama, I want to make it work so much , but there's only so much I can do , I'm planning on seeing him this weekend to talk so hopefully we can work something out!
Sorry about your parents btw 🙁