I need some advice from mommas who have dealt with the legal system in California. If my partner and…
I need some advice from mommas who have dealt with the legal system in California. If my partner and I were to split and he took me to court how does that work? I know he would want joint custody, which is fine with me, but how would it work in the event of placing him in a school?
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
You'd both have to live near the school and share that task, of course. If you go to your local family court they might be able to talk you through some things.
Ingrid·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam, What happens in the event we both live some distance?
Ingrid·
Мама сына-младенца
I'll live in the valley and he in LA
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
One of you will likely have to travel further or use buses. You can try to find a centrally located school to both of you but will be hard to find one in the district probably. So one will have to travel. Up to you guys really.
Ingrid·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam, Oh man. Ugh this sucks because it's between a 25-30 minute drive for both of us and an hour with traffic.
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
That sucks bad. But if he's with him half time (few days a week or every other etc) then you don't gotta worry about it for that time 😂
Ingrid·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam, I really hope he has him less days. 🤣 I'm just tired of us always fighting. I do everything so that he doesn't have to worry, but instead it's always something, "what did you do all day" "you haven't done shit" "why can't you be like my mom".
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Ouuuchhh. Go date your mom then, fool. Well, cali is a 50/50 state. If he's little and breastfeeding they may not do 50 until later. Then when he's older you can always try and redo custody. If you look better on paper (being close to school, stability etc) you might be able to have him more
Sarah·
Мама дочки (1 год)
My niece stays with her mom during the school week and her dad on weekend