Is it a good or bad thing to have a baby shower a month probably less then when your due.

@ninaberrygood15 but they want so much per person at a restaurant but I'm going to talk to more of my family and his side to see if they can bring food because like you said it just needs to be finger food we don't need to go all out and that's what his mom wanted to do this is going to be well before dinner time anyways.

@shancakes93, ok

@shancakes93, ok ummm tough crowd. What type of restaurant are there? Like is there a famous Daves or a cub foods. See people be trying to do a full meal but in actually it's usually finger foods.

Hey just message me it's hard to keep track of these comments on this app

Ask everyone to bring a dish

@ninaberrygood15 it's a suggestion that I've thrown out there but then a couple people were on the side of we're bringing you stuff for the baby why do we need to bring food

@shancakes93, why won't you make it like a potluck and pay for a really nice cake?

@ninaberrygood15 I guess like chicken mostacholi salad rolls and I know my family said that they can bring a couple side dishes but then we got to think about 50 people pretty much

And there should be boundaries and your man needs to talk to his mother and step up.

@shancakes93, what would you want?

@ninaberrygood15 I'm in Michigan.

Basic crap really lol

She's trying to control his name too. Im lile noooo. But i still have to respect her its so hard

@shancakes93, okay umm what type of food are you trying to do?

@ninaberrygood15 we have a theme and hall picked out. I'm food is my main concern. Catering is crazy expensive

Okay um maybe come up with a budget or what you can spare. And maybe I could come up with an idea.

@ninaberrygood15 she's stubborn, so am I..but I feel November is best..First baby just feel January is a risk month .

@tiannaramirez1 pavilion fee.. Dont want it at a park..but good suggestion

Idk if you want to do it at a park but a nice park pretty sure that would be free

@ninaberrygood15 Dont have friends like that

She's cold hearted!!

@shancakes93, ask a friend to help. It might not be all extravagant but it can turn out to be nice. With my children I had to throw my own! I did what I could afford and it turned out beautiful.

@ninaberrygood15 helping with the shower. She's out off.

@ninaberrygood15 I'll have slight help.

You don't have anyone else to throw it?

Out of what? Throwing your shower?

We needed it November. But can't handle baby shower expensive. Like halls are going yo be booked..its crazy season now

@ninaberrygood15 shes saying she's "out" now..i work in retail my s.o he works for Amazon we aren't going to get days off easy after November. His mom is recoverinf after her wonderful expensive vegas trip.

I'm due January I'm having mines in November. It's what you want not everyone else.

No not bad just enough time before the baby arrives having mine in October but baby not born till dec 5 but honestly it's all up to you & when you would want it at the end of the day it's your baby and your baby shower

It's best to have it 6-8 weeks before you're due.