Omg! Idk what to say right now my heart literally jus dropped so My baby's Grandparents from her dad side family are comin..... they haven seen her since she was 1 month old so I get a Txt jus now From my baby daddy who choose to walk away who never contacted me to see how his daughter is doin or no money wat so ever!!! He said if I mind tht he comes tomorrow tand see our baby. Like am in complete shock right now!!! 😦😡 am feelin mix emotions right now like was it so hard to fucken txt ! Idk wat to do!! Why Now why is he tryna come see her now like!!!! Wtf idk was to do is goin to hurt me more if he comes and decides to see her then stops contacting me again. Like... ppl comment help. Shuld I txt him if I do I don't want to txt him a long paragraph
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Seriously thank you ladies you guys helped me!!! I hate lookin like am the bad one he choose to be absent all the sudden he wants to twist it up! Am jusbgoinbto stay strong whether he comes tomorrow or not
guys have a way of always making the momma look bad. lol
I would text him n ask why now. Just to see where his intentions r...n if he wants to play the good guy roll play along...see where it goes. If he becomes the good dad u want for ur daughter great but if he doesn't at least u tried n can say u truly tried for the sake of ur daughter.
Yes exactly girl and he tryna say tht I never would bring her tht way and blah blah like really !!! You never tried to be a man and tried to figure out how we goin to work this or even helped with money or see how she doin !!! Like he tryna backfire at me!!!! I did nothin!!! He makin. Me madd! Am done texting him!!! He really tryna like the good guy here, and tryna make me look like am the reason why he don't see his daughter so his parents can know am the bad one and he the one THts been tryin When he has not!! He hasn't changed oh geez he can get baptized 100 times and he still be the same as DUUDDDDE
yes talk to him first before letting him see the baby. theres no need to get the baby all happy about her dad coming around if hes just going to dissapear again. to me it just seems like maybe his grandparents dont know whats going on that hes not in her life and wants to show off like he has been.
I would definitely talk to him to get his priorities figured out before his parents are there to get in the middle of it! Hopefully, they would be on your side though since they want to see the baby!
What do you think bout me texting him. Sayin this " Why now? If your intentions are jus to come tomorrow and never again, don't even bother comin, Also if your not tryna pay child support and help your daughter then don't even bother comin. Simple as tht. Your daughter deserves better and she don't need no games. So you choose, to come or not. "
I would want to meet with him myself first. Find out his intentions are. If he is going to be in her life for real and move forward from there
just be careful they have a way of making u feel from angry to feeling like a bad mother. just know that your a great momma & that he hasnt supported u in any way and that when ur daughter grows up she will understand and realize it on her own.