I need your opinions on my living situation.

Option 1: my moms house, super relaxed and comfortable BUT she lives in a ghetto apartment with really loud neighbors and I would have to go up and down the stairs with the car seat/stroller because she's on the 2nd floor. Also, the baby would have to be in my room due to lack of space. It's a 2/2 apt. One room for mom. One room for me and the baby.

Option 2: my bf's moms house. It's a 4 bed 3 bath house, I would get my own room and we could have a nursery. The house is 2100sq ft so it won't be crammed and there is a pool also. BUT I'm not as comfortable here. His mom is annoying and old and my bf and I don't have the strongest relationship. So I feel super vulnerable here. But the baby would be more comfy here. (And it's quiet lol)

Help.....