I would like to consider myself quite a strong person but a few mums at stans school just broke me…
I would like to consider myself quite a strong person but a few mums at stans school just broke me down in tears, Ava is autistic and she was having a moment where to other people she looks naughty but she was just very frustrated and was crying because she wanted to go home as we had been waiting for quite awhile to get into stans school. She was trying to drop to the floor or run away from me and all I could hear was people making remarks saying that Ava is a brat, that I should be able to control her better. I'm used to Ava getting looks when we are out because of some things that she does or that she is not like most 3 year olds, but today just sort of was enough for me. I love Ava to bits she is literally my world and when people act like this because she's different really upsets me 😔
Sue 😊·
All kid are different in there own little way don't lisen to the snobby mums I can't stand people like that I'm shore ur a great mum and live ur daughter to bits just let it go over ur head some people in this world are just very sad chin up beaut xxx
sarah·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет)
@suzannecamilleri26, thanks Hun 😊 I don't usually let people get to me , at the end of the day they don't know the situation with Ava and just jump to conclusions, which I can't stand xx
Sue 😊·
@sarahlucindagiddins what u went throw today anyone would be upset it really bugs me the fact people say things and not no ur situation if they had any respect they ask what's up not talk shit all playground kids stuff xxxx
Alisha Pomells ·
I wouldve said something but then again you don't need to explain yourself to anyone or explain to anyone about Avas condition. You know the reason why your daughter is the way she is don't listen to anything they have to say. People are mean when they don't understand and are quick to judge other mothers but I bet they wouldn't say it to your face. Just ignore then hunni I'm sorry they made you upset x
beff ·
she's 3 nearly 4 it's normal for kids to get frustrated and not communicate it properly, don't worry Brody's the same when things don't go to plan.
Don't feel bad and don't feel like it's your fault either. Your great and your kids think so too! Don't forget it or doubt yourself 😘
sarah·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет)
@suzannecamilleri26, exactly i would rather them ask me then make rude remarks. But I guess some people are just stuck in there own little worlds and would rather be nasty about a 3 year old then know what's going on x
sarah·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет)
@mum2sky, thanks Hun I usually don't let people get to me but when it comes to Ava she wouldn't know if you were being mean about her and that is what upsets me more. She's such a happy little girl and because she's having a moment there just being mean about her x
sarah·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет)
@beffgoude, thanks Hun I appreciate that 😊 I don't usually let people get to me, it just really annoys me sometimes like she can't talk at all so she expresses herself in different ways and people don't get it, on another day I probably would of said something but I don't want all theses mums having a fight in a school playground lol x
Alisha Pomells ·
@sarahlucindagiddins I understand hun. I think if they say something again you should speak up just to shut them up because I'm sure it would make half of them feel ashamed as they should. Ava is lucky to have a mum like you who defends her when she can't x
sarah·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет)
@mum2sky, the thing is when this sort of thing happens I'm quite quick to defend but today for some reason it just got me upset, I feel like I'm always having to explain but I think if I see them again on Monday I'm going to say something so they know for future if they see a child they don't approve of there might be a reason, but thank you all theses lovely mummies on here have definitely cheered me up 😊x
Alisha Pomells ·
@sarahlucindagiddins yeah I can imagine. Sometimes all the comments build up and instead of anger it just upsets you and yes I think that's what you should do because they are out of order she's only 3 for god sake. I hope we did hun 😚 x
beff ·
@sarahlucindagiddins hey we all have them days where we reach our boiling point. I don't understand why people have to tear eachother down, instead of coming over to see if you needed help! 👌 we got your back momma don't worry xxx
sarah·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет)
@beffgoude, thanks Hun mummies on here have cheered me up 😊, I don't get it either I guess some people are just mean and would rather be nasty then help xx