Mommas, I am going through a really tough emotional point in life and pregnancy. I am over the moon happy that I'm pregnant even though it wasn't planned. I've just been crying a lot lately because I've been feeling so alone. My boyfriend just isn't there anymore he was so excited about having a baby but now it seems like he doesn't even care. I don't know what to do. I am going to a pregnancy recourse center for some help and some counseling to get me through this tough time. I just am so exhausted emotionally and physically, and am in need of some support!!
@mia.forte1997 I speak to my sister about it. Counseling is just that, someone to listen. So if you can find very patient and supportive people in your life you can find peace of mind or better ways to cope with the madness. Sometimes is hard to ignore your SO when he doesn't get it but when you feel attacked by his ignorance listen to music or read a good book. Or watch a funny movie to ignore his comments about it. 🌸
Counseling is a great thing to do for yourself. It'll help you realize for yourself if it's you putting thoughts in your head versus it actually happening. Overthinking is something that can really mess with you without realizing.
@marinewife10, it is crazy I don't think he gets that, he just says I'm crazy. How do you deal with it, and get through it??
You aren't the only one ma. I also have been struggling with so mamy emotions with this pregnancy. It's crazy how hormones be messing with our sanity. 😞😳
You just need some time to yourself. He will come around soon, a lot of boyfriends act that way. Just get away for a little while and enjoy your pregnancy.
I been walking this week so hopefully Monday I've dilated some!
on the 6th October I did 2 test with 2 lines , 3rd test was clear blue digital and was positive 2-3 weeks I was waiting for a month for a midwife appointment.. so yesterday I started bleeding went today for a scan and they go to me no sac .. but can see a cyst or a sac outside the womb so therefore she did another test there and it was negative .. she said if it was positive it would have been ectopic pregnancy but because it was negative she said it's miscarriage.
Has anyone else been through...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Ladies, I'm so freaking excited and happy right now that I am UGLY crying at work !! My doctor just called me because he got my blood results back, baby is good and I'm having A BOYYYY!!! I cant believe after all I've been through I finally get my boy !!! Thank you Jesus !!! I want to surprise Tim, any ideas of how I can surprise him for when he gets home from work tonight ??? Let's hear it.
#TEAMBLUE
I've been smoking since the age of 14 I am now 20 and fell pregnant I am struggling really hard to stop anyone else been through this?
@marinewife10, I usually have been talking to my best friend about it because I really just needed someone that listens. I have been up and down but lately it's been more down. I'm not depressed or anything I think it's just hormones. However, it also doesn't help that SO is calling me crazy and saying that I'm over reacting. But I will take that advice!