I've been talking bout wanting another baby for weeks and he's been shutting me down.. up comes my period and ovulation, I let him know, but he decided to finish in me the 1st day of ovulation, and ever since we found out we were pregnant he dont want to tell anyone.
This is suppose to be a happy time, I wanna share my excitement with our families, but he wants to keep it a secret. He's not even excited about this, he won't give me a better excuse for wanting to hide it other than he just don't wanna tell people yet. It's making me really depressed and making me not even wanna be pregnant!!
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With my first pregnancy we didn't tell the public until I was 20 weeks. With this baby, we waited until about 10 weeks. For us it was getti NV out of the red zone. I had a MC with my very first pregnancy. So that's why we waited until 20 weeks when we got pregnant again. With this pregnancy we waited until the heartbeat was seen and heard and we knew it was healthy.
When my boyfriend & I found out I was pregnant he didn't want to tell anyone either which really upset me but after a few months went by he decided to tell the whole world lol. I think it had more to do with him being nervous & not wanting to announce to soon incase something happened. But now that I'm almost 5 months he posts all of the baby's sonogram talks about him to everyone & is very excited! I'd say just give him a little time. Congrats btw❤️
Girl I can relate to exactly how your feeling stay strong and if you need to vent or someone to talk to I'm here
He was totally excited about our first one. But not this time!!
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his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
We don't have any prior problems... etc.
That's why I don't get why we have to hide it!!