
Update on Little Bear ::
**Thank you everyone for your prayers & kind words! **
Surgery went great! He has been sleeping since. Has 3 tiny little insiscion in his abdomen. Now waiting for his 1st bottle since 11am yesterday, making it a total of
25 hours 45 mins . ..since he last had anything put into his belly. & worse part is going to be the cry of hunger hes going to do when they only feed him 1 oz!!
But I am beyond happy that I pushed the GI specialist yesterday that I wasnt leaving without having internal test done to see what could be going on in there. & Finally my baby boy can feel normal, so can mom & dad. Finally be able to relax, not fearing that everytime we put him down hes going to projectile vomit, or choke on his excess salvia or vomit. That he will find comfort in just the simplest things like, sitting & being able to lay flat on his back, & not constantly feeling like he has to push because his belly is in discomfort.
It was a scary to hear the word surgery yesterday, through all the aniexty & stress running through my veins i just reminded myself .. its for the best for him & us. & Life would become easier from these next few days & forward.
Omg, I'm so sorry you have to go through this.. I couldn't imagine the stress and fear you felt every day. I'm so happy he feels better now!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I don't even recognize my child anymore 😢 It's going to be a long couple months trying to straighten him back out. I just hope I can. He absolutely hates me for disciplining him. And apparently his dad has taught him a colorful assortment of cuss words 😡
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...

So this happened today. My daughter is going to be a big sister!
Def a suprise (tho I had a suspicion since I had horrible heartburn since last tue). Decided to take a test today since my period was due yesterday tho it's not uncommon for me to be up to a week late.
Havnt told hubby yet but he is going to freak since were having some financial issues currently (mainly from him being off due to surgery but will be going back to work here soon)
Looks like a May baby. Excited and nervous 🙈
Surgery is the hardest thing my son has had two it's awful hope for a speedy recovery