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Need to vent...and I feel bad about it. Yesterday was a bad night for my girl,she was up a few times during the night…

Need to vent...and I feel bad about it. Yesterday was a bad night for my girl,she was up a few times during the night (she's constipated). I got up with her every time because I'm breastfeeding and it's just easier. To be fair my husband will get up and ask me if I need anything, hardly ever do. I got up last time with her about 7 and left him to sleep in till 830-ish. A couple hours later he suggests a nap, and I'm all for it. Until he says yeah just put the baby down for her nap in her bassinet in our room and then lay down when you do. Our daughter is a serial cat napper, 30 minutes max. I kind of looked at him and realized he was serious. No offer of taking care of her for a couple of hours so I could have a real, uninterrupted nap. And he mentioned later about my lack of nap, I just said it seemed pointless. And it is, I take a little while to fall asleep so 30 minutes is a joke. Still pissed about this.

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TiffanyМама двоих (младенец)

I would have been SO mad also! I probably would have said, I'll take a nap, but you need to watch our daughter while I do that! I'm very blessed my husband is not afraid to take care of both our girls at once when mommy needs a serious break/nap! We need that sometimes!

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