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Jessica Whitaker
Jessica Whitaker
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Working so much more than hubby. One day off because chick fil a isn't open on that day. This Sunday im going in for…

Working so much more than hubby. One day off because chick fil a isn't open on that day. This Sunday im going in for training with paid time. Exhausted, cleaning the house, still making appointments, cleaning baby, doing laundry, keeping hubby fed. Doing so much around here. Hubby is only carting me around and doing little things with baby. He barely helps out but that's actually what I expected from him...I was wishful thinking that he'll do more. Nope. I have to clean the fridge, take out trash and wash dishes. I cant wait on him anymore and I cant afford getting sick and staying home to get better. Regardless I have no days off. Constantly working, no time for anything. I'm lucky if I get rest. I just need to hope for the best from now on. I know that all my hard work will be rewarded when my baby and I have a home of our own. No more rv living. My daughter deserves a home, a backyard and neighborhood friends, and open space. That's what I'm shooting for until its time for the next goal.

Does your baby father tell you what time to be home like have a curfew ? Because really I'm not a child and I'm not…

Does your baby father tell you what time to be home like have a curfew ? Because really I'm not a child and I'm not going out drinking or partying it was a child play day and unplanned so of course I didn't wash the dishes if I had known I would of cleaned in advance and cooked but seriously he took it too personal saying I'm in the street all day and it's the last time I do this really do I look ten years old to him ?

I may receive a lot of shit for this but here I go. I just saw a woman on Facebook complaining because she has to clean…

I may receive a lot of shit for this but here I go. I just saw a woman on Facebook complaining because she has to clean 2 rooms and take care of her kids and doesn't understand why her mother in law bitches about why it's not done everyday. Uhm okay. Let me tell you why. You don't anything. Your husband works all day while you sit at home and complain about working and cleaning TWO ROOMS and yet you want a HOUSE. As a stay at home mom and pregnant, supposed to be "taking it easy" I clean a room every day, with kids hanging off my legs. I make sure that the man that works 12+ hours a day has a hot meal, clean clothes and doesn't have to worry about coming home to a dirty house. Is my house spotless? Hell no. But it's not filthy. I do all the shopping, I cook three meals a day but there are days I say fuck it all. Am I super mom? No. Am I perfect? No. Do I always do what I say I'm going to that day? No but I make it a point to try. Am I expected to do it? No. No one expects super mom but they expect you to try instead of sitting on facebook 24/7 complaining. "I'm just so tired of being expected to be super mom and I'm not. My kids drive me crazy to the point i don't want anymore kids because they're a pain in the ass." That was her comment. Then stop having unprotected sex or try harder to prevent it. I tried giving you advice to make it easier but you'd rather make excuses of why you can't do it. I don't know if I'm wrong here or not but I don't expect my fiancé to work all day, every day for more than a week at a time and then come home and clean. I ask him to take out the trash and occasionally help me fold laundry. But I don't ask much else because he provides EVERYTHING.