I can't vent to facebook..soo... Im highly pissed no im not pissed im angry as hell... My mom is so damn selfish and scandalous. I just moved into my own place and she also babysits my kids while I work. Well today I went over there to get out and to wash my clothes so she goes why are washing here you can goto the laundromat... Im 5 months pregnant with two kids you would think she would be willing to help... Why would I want to take both kids to the laundromat.. She goes you need to learn to be independent... Whoaaaa as far as im concerned i dont beg or ask anyone for shit i do everything by myself so im sorry im going through a miserable fucking divorce and literally came over there because I was off and needed someone to talk to and trying to learn this new life.. Sorry i thought my mom out of everyone would be there for me.. She also goes you just left from here i need a break.. Soooo if you feel like that why are you begging me to get child ass. Through state so that you can babysit and get paid.. She always shuts me out makes me feel like i shouldnt talk about my mental health or i need to be stronger.. I feel like me putting my children and me first by leaving my husband (previous post) was a big step for me ive started working after 2 years and i actually moved and signed my own lease.. She also asked if he came over last night.. I told her don't bring him up i haven't talked to him.... I just feel so sad and that im trying my best to learn to do this alone but i dont feel i should ve considered weak for wanted help and support .. I grew up pretty quick im barely 22 3 kids already getting divorced I know it could be worse but for me right now this is hard for me to handle and I feel im being pretty strong..
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Hunny go to mommy groups find some friends that will let you vent that is beyond fucked up. I really wish I could help you. Your mom is being kinda greedy. Your mom needs to support you. But if there's one thing I know its that even family can be the heartless people. In closer to my friends than my own family because they are so judgemental and mean. Btw Not sure if you are aware but If you get money for something like that you can't pay her it has to be threw actual daycare I believe.
You should write her a note and say exactly what you said here! It's not rude, it's straight to the point and honest. Sometimes writing it to the person, whether it is a text or a note can be better to tell a person how you feel because you can tell them everything without being interrupted or judged in the moment. You get everything out can can just lay it out on the table for them, you know?
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
ladies i have a question! so if your kid does something and you did not see but a family member does and they hit your kid twice with a shoe wasnt hard but my son is sensitive when it comes to this specific family member getting on to him.. if i was rite there do you ladies think she should have told me so i could discipline my son or was it fine.. now let me say this family has changed with my son doesnt pay attention to him like before and it really pisses me tf off when someone hits my kid if...
3RD UPDATE: What would you do?
Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitt...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@aboutellesbabes yea sounds a good idea i just dont know if she'll really even care she'll do it again