Best age gap? My husband wants another soon. I'm unsure, I was planning a 6 year gap. But people are saying that's too…

@simplyshantell, yes! That's why I wanted a larger gap but now my daughter is acting sooooo grown that I feel like having another won't hinder my time with her ❤️

When I had my son I knew I wanted to enjoy him being little and have my time dedicated to him and him only. When I realized he's started changing, becoming a big boy, no longer in diapers and independent, being very social and loving with other kids and then him asking me for a sibling himself I decided I was open to the idea of trying again, once he turned 4. I got pregnant without trying but I'm okay with it now because I know it's a good age gap to have another, for me personally. This one will be our last and I feel calm and unstressed about it :) @mamalambs

@smash6684, that's so sweet 😍 maybe I shouldn't stress too much then. Thanks!

@smash6684, she didn't feel like more of a care taker than a sibling? That's what I'm worried about

@damiensmommy1117, oh no! Yeah maybe I should do that, too. My daughter will be 2 in October so we can start planning after her birthday maybe! It just seems so soon😱 I tend to forget pregnancy is 9 months so if I wait until she's 3 to try to get pregnant, It'll be 4 year gap haha.

My sister is 6 years younger than me and I feel like we argue and she annoys me more often than we get along. I'm planning a three year gap for myself though.

@ecahanes, true, that's a pretty good reason haha I guess I'll think more about it then. Thanks girl

@bethanysmommy, personally I wanted to get the baby stage over with and not start over that's really what made my decision

@ecahanes, yeah that's my only concern :/ ughhh idk what to do. Half of me wants to agree with hubby because I want my daughter to be close to a sibling but other than that, I want to wait lol the struggle

Mine are close and age and it's crazy to see how much he loves his little brother. I know thy will be really close because they are so close apart. I have clients (I'm a stylist) who have brothers or sisters who are five or more years apart and they always say they weren't that close because they liked different things and different times