greeeeeeeat so my dad told me today my grandma wants to be here for when I deliver like in my room.

( she wants to get here before my due date )

Since, when do my parents make the decisions on who is & isn't going to be in my room?! seriously I AM SO DONE. I don't even want my mom , sister OR dad in my room. I just want my husband & best friend. IDC if anyone thinks that's selfish. I just want everything to run SMOOTH. I want my room to be calm & positive. I want a good environment & with all of them in there it won't be.

1. having my dad in the room is just weird for me. It may not be weird for others but for me it is.

2. my mom freaks out for everything & she's over dramatic. I can just see CHAOS happening & I can see myself yelling at her kicking her out of the room + she's gonna want to take pictures of EVERYTHING & I don't want that. Seriously.

ALSO , this might be SELFISH & again IDC. but I want NO ONE posting pictures or anything before I do! I want to be able to enjoy my moment w. my husband before I get attacked w. messages , calls + text from everyone & I don't want anyone visiting me until a day AFTER he's born. I want to enjoy my time. BUUUUUT knowing how my mom is that WON'T happen. UGH.

Sorry for the long rant. 🤦🏼‍♀️💆🏼