I guess baby Daddy & I aren't going to make it. π₯
Anyone else going through this mess?
I don't even know where to begin..he has negative friends that are already filling his head about getting lawyers etc..
Help a Mommy out plz π
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Are you an unwed mother? Until he takes you to court you legally have 100% custody. It takes ALOT for a dad to get 50/50 unless that's already the current situation. Child support and visitation/custody are two different things. The amount of child support is set to maximum unless there are court papers stating father involvement etc. but they are two separate cases that have to be filed separately. Most likely (idk the situation) he'll get visitation. Standard state mandated visitation is once a week and every other weekend. Message me if you need anything mama! Being a single mom is rough but it's SO REWARDING! We are ALL here for you! Let me know f you need anything π
or hopefully you guys can work it out for the baby. good luck! u will be fine:)
if thays how he wants to be then screw him.. i would just not pay attention and just worry about u and the baby,
i dont really know the story,but if its for visitatioms with baby ect or child support.he wont take u to court cuz he would have to pay child support. and if u guys arent together and u dont go to court then you have the say over yoyr baby.not his if u wamt to leave away from his u can. but as soon as u go to court you r stuck in the same shit over and ovee again...π
Thanks girl! He's 33
I just don't know what to do legally when it comes to visiting with baby. He's got a f'd up schedule and wants me to work everything according to his schedule. PS I'm a working Mama too.
Well if ur bd is falling for all the BS and letting his friends feed him that he doesn't need to be a dad how old is he and if he can have a kid he can make his own choice n not go to his friends n let his friends tell him what to do he needs to grow up keep ur head up mama
Also! Any arrests or warrants or criminal/drug history will affect his visitation. Also he can't just get a lawyer and file. He has to put a lot of money down just get a lawyer. My best advice would be keep EVERYTHING out of court and let the cards fall where they will. You don't need a man to help raise your baby. You got this!