I could really use some advise. I have a 3 month old daughter and me and the father are not…
I could really use some advise. I have a 3 month old daughter and me and the father are not together. He's been asking to take her and spend the night. I breastfeed her so I been telling him that he can't really. I don't stop him from seeing her otherwise and I did let him take her for a few hours during the day and they just fed her formula mix with breast milk. But when she came back I had a hard time getting her to latch on and since when I pump I don't get much out anyway my supply went down a lot. And him constantly asking is getting stressful. I wanna breastfeed and I want him to have his time too.
Sarah Cocco·
Мама четверых детей
I would just say no and not feel bad about it. If you want to breastfeed and keep things going, she just can't go overnight right now. He will have to deal with it. I think you get extra points for caring about their relationship though. Thar is important too. But, in the beginning, babies need their mamas
chelli·
I agree with the previous comment she can get nipple confused and not want to latch at all
Deja Durant·
Мама дочки-младенца
Well thank you @chelli @therurallady I guess I just wanted to make sure I wasn't wrong if I kept telling them no so I do feel better. I don't feel like dealing with their attitude when I tell them but hopefully I can get through it
Sarah Cocco·
Мама четверых детей
@deja2017 yeah. It's definitely not easy dealing with exes