I sometimes feel like my son is going to hate me because I'm with someone else and not with his father. I left his dad because I just wasn't happy and I'm happy in my new relationship. And my boyfriend loves his step son and calls him his best baby friend. Idk I'm just nervous.
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
*I'm just looking for others perspectives* I want to have my son circumcised, my husband who is uncircumcised does not want our son to get the procedure. I don't know much about the difference because I'm a woman, we don't have a religious preference to do it, just I'm just curious about what others plan on doing for their son!
Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
So not in the Christmas spirit this year 😕 I mean I'm happy I have my unborn & my big boy but it's just not the same without my little fatty, it would've been his first Christmas 😢
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
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I'm not gonna lie, he may go through a phase like that at some point, but when he's old enough to understand, he won't hate you. He'll only care that you are happy.
Brooke·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@damiensmommy1117, I've had people tell me that it's better for him to see me happy then upset. And as long as I co parent (if his father gets his act together) , he won't be as affected. Every choice I am making for him and I hope he knows that when he's older.
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@annmelendybrooke
My mom stayed with my dad for 10 years because they had me and then ended up having my sister, I could see she was miserable and upset and it made me sad. Once she left him and she was happier I was also happier and glad to see that she wasn't suffering anymore. So I think those people are right. :)
bunny·
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@annmelendybrooke yes, keep a healthy relationship with his father.
Brooke·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@damiensmommy1117, things with my sons father where really bad. When I was 13 weeks he pushed me into our kitchen table because I didn't make him dinner. I saw that kind of thing growing up as I refuse to allow my son to see that.
Brooke·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@callher_bunny, I'm trying super hard for my son
bunny·
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@annmelendybrooke that's the best you can do is try. Seems like you're doing all the right things.
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Another thing that kept me from hating her is that she never kept me from communicating with my dad. Even though he is a druggy piece of shit who only ever contacted me when he was in jail, she always let me talk to him if he called and she let me write to him. She didn't let her feelings towards him block me from trying to have a relationship with him. I think that's one of the most important things she did for me.
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My dad was abusive too.. Unfortunately I saw it for a good chunk of my child hood.
Brooke·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@damiensmommy1117, I agree and i want my son to have a relationship with his father. I lost my parents young and I was a wreck. I know what it's like to grow up without my father and I'd hate for my son to go through that pain
Brooke·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@damiensmommy1117, my mother was the abuser. My father did his best after she died and when he passed a year later it was horrible. My. Parents where only together because they had me. Then went on to have 3 more and the hate grew from there.
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@annmelendybrooke
I'm so sorry :(