Myself and my SO have a lot of issues mostly centered around the fact we don't communicate very well. There's a lot more to it but additionally I am 8 months pregnant with our second baby and our 1st is almost 1. I am usually the one suggesting counseling or a solution to our issues but I can't do it anymore as he usually blames me and refuses to look at himself as having any issues at all. It appears it's over and so since we're not on speaking terms and we haven't discussed what's next per se ie living situation how do I not rise to the bait when he says things to get at me, which is a tendency of his. I am very pregnant beyond sad and done fighting, and more or less done trying to salvage us.