WORST FCKN DAY EVER! I'm a single mom now, all I've been doing is crying since 10 this morning. I know that I can do this, and that I have to be strong for my babies but I am so sad and I miss him!
@alliecat_, it's hard ESP starting out. Hope it all works out for you.
@morganmommy79 yes! We're trying to! We have money saved bit every time we look, the place isn't worth the money. Hating San Diego eight now lol
@alliecat_, i hope it works out for you. Maybe let go of something else to afford an apartment together or move out of town to get something cheaper. Itll be worth it in the end.
Thanks girls! @morganmommy79 @kailey.gallentine @aboutellesbabes @torrey_love @chocolatemomma I really needed all this! I have no one to talk to!
@morganmommy79 yeah stupid things were done & said. And definitely learning that it is SO NOT GOOD to live with parents lol. Its just so damn expensive here. But we've been talking. Kinda just seeing where things are without arguing.
@kailey.gallentine yeah you're definitely lucky. She's asking for her daddy. This is a first for this kind of fight. So, Idk lol I'm so lost
A lot of stupid things happen when someone is angry that shouldnt happen. Im sure hes missing you too. Its never good to live with family. My husbands family interfere a lot and hes learned to put his foot down to them otherwise wed be divorced from the interference. Let him cool off. Maybe hell apologize and work it out. He shouldnt leave you because of your mom esp since you have kids together
@alliecat_, ahhh yeah I couldn't even imagine
Luckily my daughters bio dad left around 6 months so she won't know any different 🙌🏻 but just remember verbal abuse and emotional abuse are just as detrimental as physical abuse
Not sure what happened but if that's that case, you are doing the right thing 💜
@alliecat_, ugh man that's so hard. I'm so sorry. Well if both of you want the same thing then it is definitely possible! So keep your head up okay? He may have to be in the doghouse for a while but that might be good for him to know that he can't treat you guys that way again! Do you think if he went to anger management classes or something like that your mom would be a little bit more forgiving? If heput in major effort to get you back?
@aboutellesbabes it is harder when other people get involved. My mom holds grudges, so when she's done, she's done. But he's my partner and my kids father. He has never hit me or anything super disrespectful it was just a bad situation and I still Want to be with him.
@kailey.gallentine yes! I have to! Its hard already lol. Hearing Summer say "where daddy go?" Ugh man
Everything happens for a reason mama!💜it's actually not as hard as it seems. Just hunker down and do it for your babies
And you will miss him for a little while but time really does heal all wounds. You'll move on faster than you know it 😘
@alliecat_, aw man that's unfortunate :/ I'm sorry! Once other family members get involved it makes it very difficult. Cuz they don't love them like we love them. So it's harder for them to get over stuff and forgive. But it can happen if you want it to! My relationship is proof of it :) if you don't want the relationship anymore then it's good it's over. But if you do, don't give up!
@torrey_love thanks, love! It was petty. It could've been avoided. But my mom was involved, and things got a little physical. My mom is completely done with him (we live with her) and he said some hurtful things. I am in love with this guy, but man...
@chocolatemomma thank you, hun! Lol I'm a mess right now but it WILL get bwtter
Good luck mama. You can do this.
And maybe if it was over something petty you guys can work it out
Oh ok. Sorry to hear that. I hope everything ends up great for you and your kids.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
ladies I do believe we have a fake 😒
(Thread Closed) Guise ??
Do not I repeat do not
So I don’t think I will keep this pregnancy and I don’t know what I’m supposed to do
@morganmommy79 thank you!