WORST FCKN DAY EVER! I'm a single mom now, all I've been doing is crying since 10 this morning. I know that I can do…

Did he pass away or something?

@chocolatemomma no, we broke up.

Oh ok. Sorry to hear that. I hope everything ends up great for you and your kids.

Good luck mama. You can do this.

And maybe if it was over something petty you guys can work it out

@chocolatemomma thank you, hun! Lol I'm a mess right now but it WILL get bwtter

@torrey_love thanks, love! It was petty. It could've been avoided. But my mom was involved, and things got a little physical. My mom is completely done with him (we live with her) and he said some hurtful things. I am in love with this guy, but man...

@alliecat_, aw man that's unfortunate :/ I'm sorry! Once other family members get involved it makes it very difficult. Cuz they don't love them like we love them. So it's harder for them to get over stuff and forgive. But it can happen if you want it to! My relationship is proof of it :) if you don't want the relationship anymore then it's good it's over. But if you do, don't give up!

Everything happens for a reason mama!💜it's actually not as hard as it seems. Just hunker down and do it for your babies

And you will miss him for a little while but time really does heal all wounds. You'll move on faster than you know it 😘

@kailey.gallentine yes! I have to! Its hard already lol. Hearing Summer say "where daddy go?" Ugh man

@aboutellesbabes it is harder when other people get involved. My mom holds grudges, so when she's done, she's done. But he's my partner and my kids father. He has never hit me or anything super disrespectful it was just a bad situation and I still Want to be with him.

@alliecat_, ugh man that's so hard. I'm so sorry. Well if both of you want the same thing then it is definitely possible! So keep your head up okay? He may have to be in the doghouse for a while but that might be good for him to know that he can't treat you guys that way again! Do you think if he went to anger management classes or something like that your mom would be a little bit more forgiving? If heput in major effort to get you back?

@alliecat_, ahhh yeah I couldn't even imagine

Luckily my daughters bio dad left around 6 months so she won't know any different 🙌🏻 but just remember verbal abuse and emotional abuse are just as detrimental as physical abuse

Not sure what happened but if that's that case, you are doing the right thing 💜

A lot of stupid things happen when someone is angry that shouldnt happen. Im sure hes missing you too. Its never good to live with family. My husbands family interfere a lot and hes learned to put his foot down to them otherwise wed be divorced from the interference. Let him cool off. Maybe hell apologize and work it out. He shouldnt leave you because of your mom esp since you have kids together

@kailey.gallentine yeah you're definitely lucky. She's asking for her daddy. This is a first for this kind of fight. So, Idk lol I'm so lost

@morganmommy79 yeah stupid things were done & said. And definitely learning that it is SO NOT GOOD to live with parents lol. Its just so damn expensive here. But we've been talking. Kinda just seeing where things are without arguing.

Thanks girls! @morganmommy79 @kailey.gallentine @aboutellesbabes @torrey_love @chocolatemomma I really needed all this! I have no one to talk to!

@alliecat_, i hope it works out for you. Maybe let go of something else to afford an apartment together or move out of town to get something cheaper. Itll be worth it in the end.

@morganmommy79 yes! We're trying to! We have money saved bit every time we look, the place isn't worth the money. Hating San Diego eight now lol

@alliecat_, it's hard ESP starting out. Hope it all works out for you.

@morganmommy79 thank you!