Everything hurts inside. I'm so angry, so frustrated and yet I can't handle so much be bottled up. Hubby just told me he is getting offers, knowing I want to work. Before hand we discussed and agreed that if I get a job before he gets a better one that I'll work and he'll be Mr mom. He literally said within a month of me working, if he starts a job I have to quit. It took everything I had to not cry. My nails dug into my abdomen I literally made myself bleed a tiny bit. This hurts. I can't stay in these walls. I want to go into town, interact with people, work to save up for my dream home. It seems he is hinting at me that I shouldn't work and stay trapped at home. I'm breaking down silently in the bathroom right now. I've searched for so long finding leads to getting a job. I became so happy he was going to let me work. I honestly think he's doing this on purpose...I'm so freaking hurt I want to drown in my tears.
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@jennrudy2016 he hates the idea of both of us working. He won't compromise with it
Maybe he just feels like he's the man so he needs to provide.. maybe work something out thats he works in the day time and u work at night tell him fine ok u can work but ur getting a night job becasue u need a social life also then just to be at home or ur gng to go crazy ..
@j_erin, tell him flat out that he doesn't make the rules for the family. If you feel that it will affect your happiness staying at home and you will be happier working, do not quit! Seriously, he needs to find a compromise.
@ilovemychildren he does. I've stressed this out three times while we were talking. I've told him, basically nagged him I want to work. Since he refuses to pay for daycare and forbids me to do so, one of us needs to stay home. He won't agree on a babysitter. I can't win with him.
Did you tell him you don't want to quit? Does he know how important this is to you?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
Ladies, I'm so freaking excited and happy right now that I am UGLY crying at work !! My doctor just called me because he got my blood results back, baby is good and I'm having A BOYYYY!!! I cant believe after all I've been through I finally get my boy !!! Thank you Jesus !!! I want to surprise Tim, any ideas of how I can surprise him for when he gets home from work tonight ??? Let's hear it.
#TEAMBLUE
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
@j_erin, that sucks he won't met u in the middle I know how crazy it is to be stuck at home I did it for three years and then said hope I have to work I can't stay here anymore and at that time we lived with my father in law in a tiny room in the back so I couldn't d anything but be stuck on the room