Everything hurts inside. I'm so angry, so frustrated and yet I can't handle so much be bottled up. Hubby just told me he is getting offers, knowing I want to work. Before hand we discussed and agreed that if I get a job before he gets a better one that I'll work and he'll be Mr mom. He literally said within a month of me working, if he starts a job I have to quit. It took everything I had to not cry. My nails dug into my abdomen I literally made myself bleed a tiny bit. This hurts. I can't stay in these walls. I want to go into town, interact with people, work to save up for my dream home. It seems he is hinting at me that I shouldn't work and stay trapped at home. I'm breaking down silently in the bathroom right now. I've searched for so long finding leads to getting a job. I became so happy he was going to let me work. I honestly think he's doing this on purpose...I'm so freaking hurt I want to drown in my tears.
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@jennrudy2016 he hates the idea of both of us working. He won't compromise with it
Maybe he just feels like he's the man so he needs to provide.. maybe work something out thats he works in the day time and u work at night tell him fine ok u can work but ur getting a night job becasue u need a social life also then just to be at home or ur gng to go crazy ..
@j_erin, tell him flat out that he doesn't make the rules for the family. If you feel that it will affect your happiness staying at home and you will be happier working, do not quit! Seriously, he needs to find a compromise.
@ilovemychildren he does. I've stressed this out three times while we were talking. I've told him, basically nagged him I want to work. Since he refuses to pay for daycare and forbids me to do so, one of us needs to stay home. He won't agree on a babysitter. I can't win with him.
Did you tell him you don't want to quit? Does he know how important this is to you?
@j_erin, that sucks he won't met u in the middle I know how crazy it is to be stuck at home I did it for three years and then said hope I have to work I can't stay here anymore and at that time we lived with my father in law in a tiny room in the back so I couldn't d anything but be stuck on the room