Planing my boys 2nd birthday but I dont know yet what I want to do. Any ideas? ☺ Ideas in everything! • like and idea on…

Of course and that they should!

Yea thats true, I just want his side to understand that too if i were to chose to do him another party too

I see, that's how my family is too. We're all split. Well I still feel like you should at least try once to combined them and if it fails then you know for the following years it's a no. And you at least tried for your son!

@momo.marie when me and my sons dad split he treated me bad to the point where my family wanted to do something about it. I refused to let that happen just because hes my sons dad regardless and almost all my family dont speak anymore and if I invite them to either or parties they won't show.

I see where you're coming from. Can I ask why they wouldn't show up?

I just feel sad that I know if we both do one my family won't show besides my parents. Like makes me shirt to see his side only and not mine, that makes him happy to look like only he cares.

I think combined is best. Less confusing for the kids.

To be honest mama, you will be so busy being hostess to have time to even think or worry about anything else. I'd just kill them with kindness. That's what I do to my husbands side (they hate me). They are all here to celebrate their own and if they can't then they can leave. I do it all for my babies not them.

@kambam were plan on doing that but just like his first year we both did separate parties. Just this time im debating if it should be like that or just one party together

Its best to try and do it together right? Maybe you can pick a place central to everyone and go from there. If his side cant show then oh well! You tried lol