jessica.deshields
Jessica DeShields
My husband complains cuz we have no money but he's the one who spends it stupidly. Our bills are paid always and we have very little left after. But I have one pair of jeans that the crotch isn't ripped and very little shirts that fit and he complains cuz I have nothing nice to wear but one pair of jeans. But if I spend anything he bitches I can hardly buy the household things we need without getting an attitude from him. I get no help with the kids and he expects me to make sure I cook him lunch and dinner and have the house cleaned. I'm just now about to get a shower at 3pm. I just want to cry from being under so much stress.
6.7 лет
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@jessica.deshields honey have you talk to him about this? If you have and he still doing it and you're letting him know it's ok to treat you like this sometime when we love someone so much we have to take a risk to do something in order for the other person to realize that he or she is hurting their partner. I'm not saying divorce. I'm in the same boat but I put my foot down and told my husband that I felt more like a maid than his wife. It took awhile but now he stepped up when he realized after a big argument and the mention of possible separations he saw my pain and I saw his but he realized where I was coming from. Just try to communicate or if that don't work take a risk and change the lock and let him know you're his wife and he your husband. Together you're supposed to be a team not a pimp and a bitch. Remember your vows.
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@jessica.deshields honey have you talk to him about this? If you have and he still doing it and you're letting him know it's ok to treat you like this sometime when we love someone so much we have to take a risk to do something in order for the other person to realize that he or she is hurting their partner. I'm not saying divorce. I'm in the same boat but I put my foot down and told my husband that I felt more like a maid than his wife. It took awhile but now he stepped up when he realized after a big argument and the mention of possible separations he saw my pain and I saw his but he realized where I was coming from. Just try to communicate or if that don't work take a risk and change the lock and let him know you're his wife and he your husband. Together you're supposed to be a team not a pimp and a bitch. Remember your vows.
@deafmama16, I love the man and I thank him daily for working his ass off to provide for us but I just want a little help I want him to just watch the kids and let me get things done. I offer to get a job and he throws a fit because he doesn't want to have to take care of the kids while I'm at work. I'm just so hurt anymore tired of holding in the tears till I get a shower. Tired of being tired. I don't ask for a lot just to feel cared about
Tf? Girl put your foot down. Don't let him walk over like that looks. Ever. You're not his bitch nor his maid. You are his wife and since he not treating you as such cook only for you and the kids. Ah nah that boils my blood 😡😡😡@jessica.deshields