@kingkaidensmommy I definitely will.. hope it doesn't turn into a big argument, hoping for the best. Hope he gets it

@beebaby @deafmama16 thank you ladies for all the advice. I told him.before he left that were going to have a talk tomorrow. So let's hope he gets it, or I'll come and rant again lol jk

I felt the exact same way during my pregnancy . Try to talk to him or make some plans of ur own.

@beebaby that is true

Yeah. Just my experience. Sometimes guys need examples becayse they don't listen @deafmama16

@beebaby damn

@lezlie527 some time you gotta let it all go for him to see how much it's affecting you

@deafmama16 it just recently started it hasn't been a constant thing, he's usually telling his friends he doesn't want to go out.. just recently it's been more constant and like I said I feel like it's because now it's going to be double the responsibility. I don't hate his friends their very respectful towards me and even ask if certain things are okay. I do wish he made more time to take me out to see a movie nothing to big. I'm going to talk to him about it tomorrow..when im not all into my emotions. Or I'll start crying, and I hate crying.

That used to me 7 years ago. I let it happen a few times and then I was just a babysitter. You can work all day and go out all night but since I'm home I can stay there. Then you take credit for the home I built alone. Hell no. It happened 3 times in a row. The 4th time door locks were changed. I didn't make a family by myself so I'm not gonna nurture it by myself. I don't mind an occasional outting but you can at least include and do stuff with your family first. After I locked him out he did a complete 360. Now he respects my place in the house for sure. I gave you a family and I can take it right back.

@lezlie527 Yes Maam. We agree on that. After he has been out wake him up and leave early. You don't get a break and neither should he. I don't care if he works or not. He ain't to tired to go out so he won't be too tired to watch his baby.

@beebaby he gets off work at 10pm, by that time I'm not thinking of going out but going to sleep. I'm going to start going to yoga in the mornings so he will be left with our daughter more often, I think he needs to see what it's like to have her for long period of time

@beebaby agree 💯

@lezlie527 exactly! Listen if he don't step up he gonna regret it. He should have limit the partying with your now 10 month old came that is if he was still doing so. Damn I'm sad and mad your going through this and he very close to 30. Oh boy

See the problem is you haven't put your foot down. You may not like it but you haven't put your foot down about it. Of course he gonna leave you home with his kids. How often does he keep the baby so you can go out??

No I said go out without him. Doesn't have to be clubs or bars. Go enjoy yourself without him like he is.

@lezlie527 naw baby girl if you keep giving him the ok he ain't gonna grow up. With kids don't matter if you're single the partying has to stop or be limited down to alot because he got responsibility. It's not fair nor right that you're feeling you're in this alone and even you said he helping but emotionally you feel it's not enough which is true. Physically you want that attention and want to feel appreciated. You are the mother of his kids and his partner so therefore he should treat you as his partner and not a maid. I went through the same thing with my husband. We are still working it out but since then he has stepped up alot when he saw his mistake.

I'm way to pregnant and it's not the inviorment for me atleast not while I'm pregnant. Their going to LA I'm sure to the bars/clubs, I don't want to put myself in dangers way just because I want to tag along. Plus he didn't invite, it's just guys going @beebaby

Why don't you go out without him!?

@deafmama16 some days I understand him and some days i feel like he doesn't understand me.. our son will be here soon and I think he knows these outings will be in the past. With a 10 month old and new born. I doubt he would be okay if it was me wanting to go out to LA and saying my friends want me to stay out there with them.. mhmm I'm sure he would be pissed probably saying mhmm your mom you have a family and responsibilities to come too.

@deafmama16 that's how I feel to top things off he wanted to stay the night out in LA with his friends. Not trying to stick up for him, but all his friends are single and have no kids so I'm thinking he's trying to hold on a little longer.

@lezlie527 TF?! you ain't wrong to feel that way especially he damn near 30. Did you ever tell him how you feel and what can be done to fix it?

He's going to be 29 this year

How old is he?