My husband and I decided last night that we are getting divorced. A little over a year ago, he had come out to me as…

Oh wow... That must be hard.. Im sorry.

Stay strong, sending positive vibes

Ew ya no need for him or her or whatever lol

a little over a year ago he told you? but you guys just decided this last night? why the long wait?

i mean that's something you definitely can't take back once it's out there.

@mamaash Just thought we could work it out eventually. Sexually I never knew if I would be attracted to women or whatever. But with his hormones and just not being a man, it was a definite turn off. It's a hard decision to make when you've been with someone 8 years almost 9 with a baby. I didn't want to make a mistake and regret it later.

so he's transgender. but he wants to be with a woman? not a man?

yeah i get that. i would just mostly be there for him just emotionally and support him whatever that may be.

because of the history not necessarily change my preference.

@mamaash Yeah, I still love him. Just can't be what he wants and same with him. We will remain good friends.

@katzfav3, I'm so sorry this happened to you this must of been so hard :/ 💔❤️

@kaylakaybaby28 Aw, thanks. It's been hard. But I think it's harder for him. It's also horrible timing, because our basset hound has been diagnosed with 2 tumors, but we are awaiting lab results. I think that hits harder, because he's such a good dog and he's pretty much out daughter's dog.

Omg I'm so sorry 😓 I really hope the best for ur family and hopefully you guys can at least be friends that's horrible I'm sorry... :/ 💔