My partner is being very secretive with his phone?? 😭😭 he used to be happy sitting next to me on his phone, now it's…

I've told him once he's finished later we're going to have a proper sit down. I just want to know why he hasn't told me. Yes I don't like her but that doesn't mean I don't have the right to know. He went to work this morning and said he loves me. He's being 2 faced and it's not helping my paranoia! Xx

He should have told you! Being open and honest is SO important, both mine and my hubbys ex's have contacted us since we've been together and we always tell the other person what they've said and just ignored the messages! Just tell him he has to tell you these things or get him to block the bitch! 😂👊🏻 if he's committed to you then he'll have no problem doing it xx

@olviafayecolby, it's your choice what you do next but all I'll say is, if it's so innocent why was he being so secretive? He can say 'oh because of how you'd react' but if it's purely innocent and one way with her initiating it all, he'd tell you from the beginning regardless of how you'd react. Either way he's fucked up- you were gonna be annoyed whether he told you when it happened or whether he told you now. The difference is now the outcome is going to be much worse for him because of the way he went about it, does he really have any respect of your relationship and your feelings. Maybe you need to have a long hard think before he works his way back into your good books x

Welllll he did have something to hide, his ex has been messaging him. Apparently he didn't want to tell me because of how I'd react.. 😒. Safe to say he's on the sofa until I've decided what to do. Apparently she's been saying they're gonna get back together etc xx

@olviafayecolby perhaps he knew u was going to ask? Hows your relationship before you notice his change in behaviour . Maybe you are just paranoid but u aint going to have peace of mind now as he's effed off out xxx

I've asked him to go through his phone, he said 'oh if you must' and chucked it at me. I went through it but couldn't find anything? I'm just wondering why he said 'oh if you must' he's gone out without even saying bye. I'm at the stage where I sometimes feel I'll be better off without him xx

Yep all u guys are right x and same me n my hubby both know each others passwords x the way ur mans acting isn't normal to u then something is up x tell him to let u check his phone x if he doesn't give it to you right there and then x he's hiding something x he might give it to you later but probably delete everything x

Agree with everyone else. If he's innocent he'll have no issue. If there's something going on he'll do everything he can to make you believe you're paranoid rather than prove his innocence. One thing I'd say though, wait to ask to see it until he's being sneaky. If he suspects your suspicion he might clear anything that might be on here ready for when you ask. If you act normal then ask when he's tilting his phone away he won't have a chance to hide anything.

I hope you don't mind but I read your post out to my husband and even he said it sounds dodgy like he's hiding something, me and my husband happily let each other look at our phones I even added his fingerprint to the lock thing, just ask him straight to go through his phone if he's got nothing to hide he'll let you x

Kinda says it all really. If he has nothing to hide he'd let you pick his phone up & look at it. We both have locks on ours but for security, we both know each other's poasswords. I'd never trust a guy who wouldn't let me see his phone.

@olviafayecolby I agree with @bonnieb ask to see the phone. Men are so sneaky ffs it annoys me. They will make u feel paranoid and try to turn it around and make u feel like you don't trust them when they are clearly doing something wrong. I wouldn't back down babe till you know the truth x

I've tried to ask him but he just shrugs it off? He's supposed to be at a works party tonight but now with this I'm worried? 😭 @mum2sky,

Personally it sounds a bit suspect. I always think a woman's intuition is right. Me and my partner both don't have locks on our phones so if he ever put one id start asking questions. Maybe ask him? X