Is it wrong of me to now want any visitors after my little girl is born? Not even family. I want it to just be me and my boyfriend. He thinks it's stupid. And even told me his family isn't gonna listen and they're gonna be mad.. I'm gonna be tired and I want to take some time to bond as a family.. any advice?
This is gonna be my first, but I want 2. :)
I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So I’m not a fan of my fiancé’s family. I want you all opinion on what you would do. His family wants to throw me a baby shower. Yet they haven’t invited any of my family and friends and none of my fiancé’s friends. My fiancé and his niece haven’t spoke since May since I got into an argument with her and supposedly this baby shower is her idea. Would you go to a baby shower that no one you know or friends and family won’t be apart of? Would you just not show up? My fiancé has already voiced his concerns and they were ignored. I’m thinking about not even going.
Heather Pilgreen·
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Update... my family is okay with it, they understand. His family however think it's fucked up and that I'm just being a bitch.
Jess🌹♥️·
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Girl if they're not gonna listen then you tell the nurses that nobody is allowed back there and they'll make sure of it. I mean you just had your baby it's not like you want anyone besides you or your SO holding them for a while!
Kaitlin❤👑·
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Maybe compromise? And only let people visit the second day? I mean its your bfs baby too and I'm sure the family is just excited.
Beth·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
If you don't want visitors tell the nurses and they will not allow anyone back. We did it. We didn't have visitors until the next day besides my husbands mom. I had a list of those allowed and that's all they let back there.
Heather Pilgreen·
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@mrazalx, that's what I'm afraid is going to happen..
Fluffy Momma·
Мама сына (2 года)
I did the same. I told people they had to wait until I got home. They had the nerve to show up to the hospital anyways.
Avah Cruz·
Мама сына-младенца
Um no it's not wrong at all. Your baby. Your boyfriends family needs to listen. My advice to you is to tell anyone who has a problem with what you want to fuck off