Idk if it's just post partum hormones but everything makes me angry now. I get frustrated so easily like my mom lives 2 hours away from me so she literally wants to text me 24/7 wants to video chat everleigh for at least 3 hours out of the day wants me to drive Everleigh there every weekend she's jealous because my BFS parents get to see her more than she does because they live closer and she thinks she wont know who she is...and when we are there she literally wants to hold Everleigh the WHOLE TIME I gave her to my brother to hold for a minute and I came back and my mom had her and I asked my brother and he said she just took her...its like she's so needy and I know I should be greatful because one day she won't be here and I love her so much but i have other things I need to do during the day besides text her 24/7 and call her 24/7 it's hard enough taking care of a newborn as it is let alone having to keep up with her so she's not sad. But she's literally went as far as to beg me every time she sees me to switch to formula(no) so that she can babysit(And not just for a day she wants her for the whole weekend but she's 3 weeks old!!!) Idk it just makes me so angry but I feel bad so I can't say anything 😔
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@jcbaby, I get that but you can't take that on. If I took on everyone else's issues, my baby would fall to the bottom of the list. He's #1. His needs are met through my breastmilk. You sound like a really good mom. Don't ever let anyone else make you question that
@mswedes it's just so hard to tell her no because she has no friends
Im so sorry I deal with a similar thing with my mom and mil. I hope it gwts better you just gotta stand your ground. Im sort of a push over :(
@jcbaby, whoa! Stand your ground. If you want to breastfeed her and aren't having issues, stay the course. I completely understand where you're coming from. Everything makes me angry when people are acting selfishly and I'm just trying to give my son everything he needs right now. You're doing great. Don't doubt yourself or beat yourself up!!
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
My baby girl does not let me do anything all day 😭 I'm lucky if everything is done before my s.o gets home , she cried so I pick her up to feed her and change her diaper and once she's on my breast she eats and I burp her put her down and she'll cry I get her again and she's on my breast not even latched on just smelling my boobs 😭 I'm like girl really lmao she wants me to carry her or be with her all day , girl I wish I could lmao
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Well I Had My Daughter Today Literally Took Me 1 Hour & 35 mins & 2 Pushes & She Was Here ! 🥰💖💖 So In Love With Her & Her Name Is Anastasia
! It Happen So Fast & Had The Best Experience! And She Was 7 Pound 10
@jcbaby its so hard too makes me sad