Okay ladies i need some advice... My babys dad finally told his mom I'm pregnant... I have never met her nor has she…

I think it's a blessing that she wants to be involved. Think positive and expect the best outcome. Praying for yu

@kingkaidensmommy thanks love... I know the age is the main issue with her

Well you are carrying her grandbaby. I could see why she would want to meet you. That is a blessing though!

Age is just a number. She will learn to get over it.

I don't get what exactly you need advice about?

My general advice would be to let her be involved only as much as you both want her to be. And don't let her over step where she shouldn't be.

@kmharr3 yea i know and her first grandd baby from her baby boy... I would never tell her no it just gets me that's he's not around

You may get alot of support from her. My brother wasnt involved with my nephew but my mom still helped with alot of things and watched my nephew and helped my nephews mom alot because my brother was being a pos.

@kmharr3 i just hope this meeting goes well and she doesnt try n force him to be with me nor be involved. I want him to do it on his own

@babyboy1117 well he's not involved... I feel like she's gunna tell me off

Just go there with an open mind, if she was a single mom she may be really understanding

This is not a judgemental statement... So please dont take it that way. I'm just making sure I understand correctly. So, y'all planned this pregnancy but he is no longer around. Now his mom knows and want to be involved even tho he isn't?

@sixplus1 yes

@bbymontoya I would just test the waters then. Try and see just how involved she is wanting to be. I can understand how that would be kind of awkward but on the other hand it could turn out to be amazingly helpful as well. Who knows, you two may really hit it off.

@sixplus1 your right i have to think postive

@bbymontoya

But if you guys were planning it then why isn't he involved? That's a little confusing lol

@babyboy1117 yea to me too trust me

I had advice but I deleted it because I saw you said he isn't around that kinda of changes things. I was saying just tell her as much as your comfortable with but in my opinion since you two aren't together I would just tell her all of it and she can take it or leave it. If she is a single mom maybe she feels for you and would like to help you because she didn't have that help, you never know. See what she says and go from there but don't be afraid about your age, I'm 7 years older than my husband and my mil was like why, well why is because he wanted a woman that's mature not the immature girls that he was dating before. If it was reversed no one would bat an eye. I think it will all work out just fine. An set some boundaries like hey I don't want you to try to make him step up I want that only if it's his decision I'm sure she can understand