No matter how much I help someone they just keep feeding till they suck me dry. I had to use our car payment to make…

Well I just kicked her out. She wants to lay in bed all day and not help clean up her own messes then proceed to get an attitude when I get mad about it. I got a call that my sisters sister inlaw got in a wreck and didn't make it I have watched that little girl grow up she's been my sisters best friend since 1st grade and was our neighbor at one point but my mom is so wrapped in herself thinking she has it awful be happy you have all your kids be happy that your still alive with the amount of drugs you do. Anyways she got in my face and had an attitude I told her to leave she sat on her ass so I helped her and threw all her shit out the front door. It didn't get lit on fire but I'm sure she had some pipes that my husband had already told her better not be here. I've never touched a drug in my life not even pot so I don't want that in my home.

@jessica.deshields I get where your coming from. We've help my mil and her shitty boyfriend to many times. My thing is if they ask for help and promise to pay you back than do it. All I no is I'm so done helping family or even so called friends. I'm so sick of being used. We've lost so much money helping people that we could have a a brand new truck two times that's with out a monthly payments

@anacort, it just caught fire and started blowing smoke. Luckily I was in the room when I happened or it would have been bad.

@mommys4angels, I'm just so tired of my mom she's never been good at parenting. The past three years I alone have housed them 4 times and they have hotel jumped also. The last time they stayed they took every bit of food I had just bought and they was suppose to pay me back for that. I've heard I'll pay you back so many times I'm sick of hearing it.

@anacort, I had a fridge to do that with and it blew up this week so that idea is gone lol. Last week I would take the boys to get them something to eat but I'm felt awful filling them with nasty fast food. So I had to just buy groceries to feed them. She's suppose to be getting her foodstamps on Monday but she's got all her stuff packed like she's leaving after the fact she used the washer and dryer n now my house is hot af.

@jessica.deshields I love that idea. My mother in law only puts in 198.00 a month in food the rest I have to go to food banks for food. That's not to mention I've also supplied her with cigarettes which she smokes about a pack and a half two two packs of cigarettes a day not including her cell phone and her boyfriend cell phone and we are through go through Verizon so you know that s***'s not cheap I wish I could throw their stuff out on the lawn and burn it but she's in a truck with her boyfriend and I just talked to my husband and he said that when they start getting a paycheck they're going to start paying us I'll believe it when I see it I'm about to not let them back in my own house I have four children and I don't need this stress and all they do is play on their cell phones that they still have not paid for I've had it up to pass my head

@mommys4angels, my mom threw the I put food in the house. Ok yea you put 200$ in but I put over 500$ in cash to food alone and I just spent another 100$ but that only pays for yalls food not the bills that your running up. If she doesn't offer any help when she gets her check on the 7th I'm throwing their shit in the yard with gasoline and lighting that shit on fire. My house will be enjoying some s'mores that night!!

@anacort, she had food stamps she gets over 600 a month she came the day after she got them and she only had 200$

I would make her and your sister leave. Don't don't have to put up with that bull. Your a grown woman. You don't need all that stress with just having a baby three weeks ago. I'm kinda in the same boat but my mother in law and her shitty boyfriend are in a truck right now still haven't said anything about giving us money for the bills or rent for last month or this month. I no if they don't start paying half the bills I'm goin to get pissed. So what if she put in maybe 125 dallors in food. That doesn't help with the bills that are late cuz the men had no work.

I keep trying to give her the benefit of the doubt but she is just so inconsiderate of our own bills when she has none. I wouldn't be so worried about the food but her and my sister just stay in the kids room and sleeps all day no help with cooking no help with household chores and she definitely doesn't watch the kids. I went to the store today to get some groceries again and came home my kids had sprayed water all over the ceiling with a medicine syringe if they was watched she could had prevented my three yr old from doing it. So I got mad and started telling her she's the adult she doesn't need to be in the room when I'm out getting food for everyone. She ignored me and started her laundry

How extremely inconsiderate. I had to completely kick my mum out of my life && life has been soooo much better without her.

Can't kick her out? lol sound cruel...