We went to visit my hubby's grandmother fit the 1st time since his grandfather passed away so she could meet her newest great grandson. Made a comment how I shouldn't be working since I have children. I told her well in today's economy we both have to have jobs (hubby and i) we can't afford for one of us to stay home. Then my MIL patted my tummy and commented I should start doing sit ups...(wth?!) To which I replied I'm still in recovery I can't start working out until 6 weeks. (I did have a csection) mind you I am back to my pre pregnancy weight. But I had 2 kids back to back my stomach ain't gonna be pretty