Mamas,
I am so ugh. I tried to talk to my boyfriend about going to couples counseling to try and deal with his anger problems and strengthen our relationship so we can deal with our problems instead of ignoring them which he thinks makes them go away. His response was I don't feel comfortable with talking to a counselor about our sex life. I asked him what sex had to with it and he said everything. He is sexually frustrated and that's the cause to all of our relationship problems, that's the reason we fight constantly and he screams and swears at me. I literally can't have sex we have tried.. but I have had so many issues with my stomach lately that it hurts to much and then I just had surgery so he knows that I seriously can't because I could rip my internal stitches since I am still healing. when I do give in I don't enjoy it it's been that way for months and months because I am always in pain from a damn mass on my liver. I can't help that I'm in pain and having sex makes the pain worse. I don't think being sexually frustrated gives him the right to scream shut the f up, get the f out of here, f-ing leave, f you or f off to me when we fight.