My MIL asked if she could be in the room with us while I'm giving birth... I know this is something special for her but I really just want it to be my husband and I in there so we can bond before we introduce our son to everyone
@clairandelijahsmom, who wouldn't be nervous your mom will literally be staring at your vagina lol if you are not comfortable with that then you are not hubby will just have to understand & so will the mother I'm sure she had her demands when she had him so she & he should respect yours. I learned this the hard way
Hubby would like to have his mom in there and I mean I get why but I am really nervous around her
Then I think that's exactly what you need to do! We decided with my first, it would be my husband, our doula and myself, that's it! And it was PERFECT!
I'm making my dad stay out side this time and watch my daughter so she won't cry or scream while I'm in labor...i don't think i could handle any noise lol i was in so much pain last time... he was in the room but behind the curtain last time Lol
You've already answered it, nope she will be alright your birth your choice.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Your birth your choice momma