Your birth your choice momma

@clairandelijahsmom, who wouldn't be nervous your mom will literally be staring at your vagina lol if you are not comfortable with that then you are not hubby will just have to understand & so will the mother I'm sure she had her demands when she had him so she & he should respect yours. I learned this the hard way

Hubby would like to have his mom in there and I mean I get why but I am really nervous around her

Then I think that's exactly what you need to do! We decided with my first, it would be my husband, our doula and myself, that's it! And it was PERFECT!

I'm making my dad stay out side this time and watch my daughter so she won't cry or scream while I'm in labor...i don't think i could handle any noise lol i was in so much pain last time... he was in the room but behind the curtain last time Lol

You've already answered it, nope she will be alright your birth your choice.