
Labor story 🙂
part 4
After Chelsie said it was time to have the baby for some reason it's like I got EXTREMLY hot!
It's like I was on fire! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. So I got ass naked in front of everyone in the room, I asked them to dim the lights and I got braced myself. It was now about 5:30am. A doctor asked how long was I in labor I said since 1:30am and she was like "do you want me to break your water?" I was so damn scared but I was ready to see Mason! I'm like yes!
When she broke my water it HURT SO BAD because she waited for me to have a contraction! I SCREAMED SO LOUD
Shit hurt so bad. But after she broke it she said I would feel pressure.
After she broke my water I had to pee so I told Chelsie and she helped me to the bed pan thing. When I used it my mucus plug came out and I FREAKED TF OUT!!!!!!!! No I literally almost passed out. So I laid back on the bed and I felt the pressure!!!!!!!!!
Omg. I felt it and I told them I had to push. So I pushed for a few seconds and I got scared. I don't know why! It's just you're experiencing something for the first time not knowing what to expect. So I pushed for a few seconds and they had me hold my legs. When I pushed again I FOCUSED ALL OFMY ENERGY ON FEELING MASON COMING THROUGH THE CANAL. I pushed until his head came out and I think I may have passed out!😭
I was just shocked and surprised ! Someone ran over put a oxygen mask on me and I had to keep pushing. I only pushed for about 5 minutes because he was out by the 3rd push.
You never know what to expect during birth when it's your first time. But having him in my arms made it all worth it.
@aydans.mommy, smh they love that FTM line. I was in active labor
@aydans.mommy, smh I'm sorry that you had to go through that
I found another midwife place and I'm thinking about using them next time. But those birth cottage B**ches will not see me ever again. I left a review and everything 😂
She just kept saying to was the weather and it would pass or that I'm a FTM and rarely ever do early labor
Nope, and I even told her something was wrong when I could barely walk into work or drive with the contractions
@aydans.mommy, awwwww😢 even more reason to why I CANT believe she didn't come! You were early! And she didn't take it serious
@aydans.mommy, omg really? I actually loved Layla I can't believe her ass didn't come! I never liked Alice she always would ask met the same question whenever I HAD to see her if Layla was out. It just annoyed me because I felt like she didn't listen bc if she did she wouldn't ask me the same things. But I did love the prenatal care I got from there but I feel like I go robbed of having a home birth bc of Alice she was the midwife on call
Glad to know I wasn't the only one with the birth cottage that it didn't go as planned
So I went to the birth cottage with Aydan. And I called Layla 5 days before I went to labor and told her I lost majority of my mucus plug. Was told it was normal. Like you knew it was "more than normal" just looking at. 4 days labor I wake up with contractions 10 mins apart. By the time I got to work they were 7 mins apart, called Layla and she said the same thing "I'm a first time mom" just the weather and Braxton hits. Took a nap during lunch they calmed down till they were 20 mins apart. Got home that night 11pm they started up again and wouldn't continue. 245 I looked at my boyfriend and said something was terribly wrong and we need to go to the hospital. Come to find out my ass was in full
Blown labor.....but was told it was nothing by Layla. I might be a birth cottage thing. Now I'm pregnant again; and while I loved going to them, Aydan was a preemie and no clue in knowing what triggered him to come early because it was all natural thing, so back to my ob it is
@anastazia.an, ohhh I didn't get the epidural because after 6 cm they can't give it to you And I was 8 cm when I got to the hospital
@beautytorrey 😯 idk 😩 n she was huge already. 8 lbs. Hopefully this time around will be faster 👌he seems smaller than my daughter so far
@shorty02, really?! How the hell hard did he want you to push?!
@shorty02, question
What makes pushing time long? Is it because baby isn't low enough?
3 pushes!? Ur a champ! I pushed over an hour. I felt like i didn't know what i was doing. N when i relaxed i was pushing her back in. Exhausted was an understatement
@momofdeuce, I'm waiting! I've drank 3 cups of coffee and I'm up 😭
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oh wow you went through a lot! sounds like you did well though. i always thought its not labor until your water breaks but they did it for you 😬glad everything turned out well though