I'm having a tough time in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years and we have a 1 year old daughter together. It's been rough for quite awhile and I just had stomach surgery and I've been off work and there is a lot of stress but I find that we fight almost everyday and it always ends up with him screaming at me and telling to to F*** off or to leave him the F*** alone. He always tries to turn it around and make it my fault and tries to guilt me by saying I'm making him so mad his chest is hurting, I'm going to cause him to have a heart attack or a brain aneurysm because all I do is pick fights. I don't pick fights. Yes sometimes I just want to work on our issues and discuss them but his way of thinking is if I push the problems to the side they are not really there. I am thinking about leaving and I'm scared about trying to make it on my own with my daughter. He doesn't help with her he "provides" financially and thinks that's enough he doesn't take care of her. I do everything or my mother does when she watches her while I work. I'm scared to actually leave. 😭
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@evanasmama, he's never been physical before he usually just storms off to go see his friends when he's angry. He chooses to be with them instead of us all the time and that's one of the problems and I'm just sick of his attitude and being treated like crap. It's just going to be super difficult and scary to be on my own. When I moved out of my parents house I moved in with him, I've never had the chance to live alone. It's not that I can't do it. Every bill is in my name, the car is mine, I just can't afford the apartment we currently live in alone. A mortgage is cheaper than my 635 rent.
@jessie1394, you're making an attempt to get your Daughter and you out of your situation. I just hope he doesn't get physical with you.
@evanasmama, he has severe anger issues I've had neighbors at our apartment knock on our door asking if my daughter and I are okay because he has such foul language and he gets so loud when he yells.
@beebaby, he won't do counseling. I do work but I've been off work since the 8th I had gall bladder and liver surgery. I am trying to take the steps to get out on my own I've spoken with a loan officer that is trying to get me approved for a program to help with a down payment on a house, and I spoke to a realtor about a house I'm interested in located by family and friends. I've spent the last 3 years of my life with him it's going to be hard to just up and leave but I know my daughter deserves better she will still see her dad I won't cut him out of her life I just can't live with him anymore.
@jessie1394, you don't deserve to be yelled at like that. He needs to be a man and respect. He also needs to learn how to manage his anger.
So you work but your afraid to leave. You don't deserve to be abused and your daughter doesn't deserve to be in the middle. You guys need to get counseling to help or seperate so that you can be happy
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